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    https://www.shreveporttimes.com/stor...ort/623133002/ - 6 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare."

    https://www.cbsnews.com/news/hot-car...as-2017-05-17/ - 7 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare"

    https://abcnews.go.com/US/baby-dies-...ry?id=54253787 - 10 month old - "Forgot to take to daycare"

    http://www.sun-sentinel.com/local/mi...301-story.html - 1 year old - "Forgot to take him to daycare"

    If they are late showing up, just send a text.

    Yes, I strongly feel if more parents were held accountable we might see less of this. Until then a 10-second text could save a life.

    Parents: Look Again!!!!!!!

    An examination of media reports about the 700 child vehicular heatstroke deaths for a 19-year period (1998 through 2017) shows the following circumstances:

    54% - child "forgotten" by caregiver (376 Children)

    28% - child playing in unattended vehicle (198)

    17% - child intentionally left in vehicle by adult (120)

    1% - circumstances unknown (6)
    - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

  • #2
    Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
    https://www.shreveporttimes.com/stor...ort/623133002/ - 6 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare."

    https://www.cbsnews.com/news/hot-car...as-2017-05-17/ - 7 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare"

    https://abcnews.go.com/US/baby-dies-...ry?id=54253787 - 10 month old - "Forgot to take to daycare"

    http://www.sun-sentinel.com/local/mi...301-story.html - 1 year old - "Forgot to take him to daycare"

    If they are late showing up, just send a text.

    Yes, I strongly feel if more parents were held accountable we might see less of this. Until then a 10-second text could save a life.

    Parents: Look Again!!!!!!!

    An examination of media reports about the 700 child vehicular heatstroke deaths for a 19-year period (1998 through 2017) shows the following circumstances:

    54% - child "forgotten" by caregiver (376 Children)

    28% - child playing in unattended vehicle (198)

    17% - child intentionally left in vehicle by adult (120)

    1% - circumstances unknown (6)
    It's tragic for sure but until they make a law (like the good Samaritan law) stating providers are NOT liable should they not text or call, I will never agree to sending a text or calling.

    I am responsible for multiple children at one time and placing that kind of responsibility on me as a group caregiver (that counts head constantly) is unfair and unrealistic.

    A parent that has ONE child (usually...multiple concurrent deaths are rare) should bear the responsibility.

    If baby has two parents, maybe the other (the one not in charge of dropping off at daycare) should be required to call and check to see if baby arrived.

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    • #3
      We are supposed to here. I always do. If anything happened to a child in my care I would be devastated. If it was something I could’ve prevented with a simple text and didn’t I couldn’t live with myself.

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      • #4
        I hate these.
        I can not imagine the panic a parent must feel when they discover he/she discovers this mistake was made. It's so devastating to think about a small child enduring the emotional and physical pain of being left to die like this.

        It just makes me so so sad.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
          https://www.shreveporttimes.com/stor...ort/623133002/ - 6 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare."
          Good suggestions there.

          Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
          https://www.cbsnews.com/news/hot-car...as-2017-05-17/ - 7 month old - "Forgot to take her to daycare"
          School parking lot for hours and nobody noticed?

          Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
          https://abcnews.go.com/US/baby-dies-...ry?id=54253787 - 10 month old - "Forgot to take to daycare"
          Forgotten Baby Syndrome - Some might say it's legit, others an excuse. Either way, parents need to do more to make sure they don't forget. I'm sure when the dad was called and he went out to the car to see baby still in it, he was devastated. Sometimes life can make you forget little things, but babies aren't little things.

          Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
          http://www.sun-sentinel.com/local/mi...301-story.html - 1 year old - "Forgot to take him to daycare"
          Said: “This is the first U.S. child that has died this year due to heatstroke in a vehicle,”
          The 1st of how many?

          Originally posted by Cat Herder View Post
          If they are late showing up, just send a text.

          Yes, I strongly feel if more parents were held accountable we might see less of this. Until then a 10-second text could save a life.

          Parents: Look Again!!!!!!!

          An examination of media reports about the 700 child vehicular heatstroke deaths for a 19-year period (1998 through 2017) shows the following circumstances:

          54% - child "forgotten" by caregiver (376 Children)

          28% - child playing in unattended vehicle (198)

          17% - child intentionally left in vehicle by adult (120)

          1% - circumstances unknown (6)
          Some daycares would have trouble adding monitoring and reminders to their already busy schedule, but if I ever do go into daycare, I'd do it. If someone was on a regular schedule and was running late, I'd be texting to check up because I would assume that if there's a change of plans, the parent would notify me, and I would be wondering what's going on.
          Children are little angels, even when they are little devils.
          They are also our future.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Blackcat31 View Post
            It's tragic for sure but until they make a law (like the good Samaritan law) stating providers are NOT liable should they not text or call, I will never agree to sending a text or calling.

            I am responsible for multiple children at one time and placing that kind of responsibility on me as a group caregiver (that counts head constantly) is unfair and unrealistic.

            A parent that has ONE child (usually...multiple concurrent deaths are rare) should bear the responsibility.

            If baby has two parents, maybe the other (the one not in charge of dropping off at daycare) should be required to call and check to see if baby arrived.
            ^^^^THIS^^^^

            My parents are not always prompt. It would be a nightmare to have to call them. It is my responsibility to care for children once they walk in my door. Before that the responsibility should be on the parents.

            So should we also be required to call to be sure they bring their children in the house at night?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Unregistered View Post
              So should we also be required to call to be sure they bring their children in the house at night?
              I never said "required". That was a projection. My statement was simple. "If they are late showing up, just send a text."

              I will further clarify.

              If you are expecting a kid and they don't show up at their usual time a simple text could save their life.

              I don't get why that statement is controversial and have no intention of debating the concept's merit.
              - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Mike View Post
                Said: “This is the first U.S. child that has died this year due to heatstroke in a vehicle,”
                The 1st of how many?
                There will be more, summer is just starting. This happens many times, every year.
                - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                • #9
                  I’ll never forget the time a man in an office below my office left his child in the child in the middle of summer. This happened about 2 years ago and we were off to lunch (11:30ish) ambulance was just arriving and I witnessed them pull a limp child out of the car. I was horrified, angry, sick to stomach, and saddended. They blocked the entire entrance off from anyone being able to enter or exit which caused a huge audience. Everyone was concerned for this child and I couldn’t help but go to my car and just cry. I ended up leaving early that day because I just couldnt bounce back into work mode after something like that.

                  Thankfully the child did survived but it hit so close to home. You read these stories on the internet or see the news and think how could that possibly happen. I don’t know how or why but it’s not something I ever want to experience again. I usually do send text messages to my families if they are late just because it bugs me that I don’t get a heads up that they are running behind. If I can save a life by a simple text, then I’ll keep sending my texts.

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                  • #10
                    I send a text too, just because I want to know if they're coming or not.

                    These things make me sad and angry. Just how does it happen? How CAN it happen? I try to not judge but this is a hard one.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Josiegirl View Post
                      I send a text too, just because I want to know if they're coming or not.

                      These things make me sad and angry. Just how does it happen? How CAN it happen? I try to not judge but this is a hard one.
                      I'm with you on that one. I realise it's possible, but there's no way I'd forget that I have a kid in the back seat.
                      Children are little angels, even when they are little devils.
                      They are also our future.

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                      • #12


                        I always encourage everyone to read this article and to never believe that it can't happen to you. Put safeguards in place. Give yourself reminders. My husband and I always send a snap to each other when we drop off the kids. It's not foolproof. I've never personally known anyone effected by this, but I read this article every single year. I can feel the suffering in these stories. It's very tragic.

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                        • #13
                          (Please note that I am in no way blaming providers or assuming responsibility falls on them --- but if you had the opportunity to safe a kids life by checking in with the parent, wouldn't you want to help?)

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by happymom View Post
                            (Please note that I am in no way blaming providers or assuming responsibility falls on them --- but if you had the opportunity to safe a kids life by checking in with the parent, wouldn't you want to help?)
                            Oh of course! But I also don't think they should mandate providers to do it because if something did happen and a provider was busy, forgot, etc., to make that call, what would happen to that provider?

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                            • #15
                              I would never want to be responsible to call or text a parent if a child didn't show on time. I never want to be responsible for a child that is not in my care. I think State's that require providers to do this have crossed the line. It's way too much liability especially for centers, providers who carry numerous kids that have rotating or odd schedules or part timers, and providers with large groups.

                              Arrival times are so busy. I don't watch the clock like I do at departure times.
                              http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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