I agree we need to give plenty of notice. But also agree that some parents think we should never take a day off. Heck licensing here believes that.
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Originally posted by Leigh View PostI've learned, as you may have, too, that the more you give, the more they expect. It always comes to a head when you run out of things to give them.
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Originally posted by Blackcat31 View PostMom doesn't see anything you've done for her (the family) as anything but normal.
YOU choose to do those things. You can't expect her to show appreciation for going above and beyond when you didn't have to go above and beyond without being compensated for it.
Had you attached a fee to ANYTHING above and beyond you did for this family, they would have recognized it as "extra".
As for closing and "not being reliable" (mom's words) Meh....most of us are in this business so we can be our own bosses and set our own hours/days etc. If this particular family doesn't appreciate everything you do, thats on them.
If they can find someone more reliable (whatever that means to them)...good on them.
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Originally posted by Thriftylady View PostI agree we need to give plenty of notice. But also agree that some parents think we should never take a day off. Heck licensing here believes that.
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Originally posted by childcaremom View PostTruth!
I try to give as much notice as possibe (min. 1 month) and limit the amount of time I'm taking off. If dcps have an issue with it, then they are clients I do not want.
This family, only dcm does not even like to care for her own children so, reason she is upset is because she is now forced to.
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Originally posted by Controlled Chaos View PostI see this type of story posted on here all the time, its sad but the way the business works I have a child whose been with me for 4 years, he goes to kindergarten in August, his mom keeps talking about how sad it will be and how much they will miss me...I have had to develop such an emotional detachment through the years, I am sort of the like "meh" I enjoy the family, they are actually good family friends, but "meh" is where I am at as far a daycare families coming and going. New people to meet, more children to get to know.
Hope you can shake it off, without letting it hurt your feelings. :hug:
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Originally posted by Play Care View PostObviously like anything else, different areas do it differently. A lot of times here people will do Friday and Saturday so that after they are done they can load up what's left and take it to the dump and then actually have one weekend day to relax.
That said, anytime you make changes to your schedule you run the risk of losing families. I have a family now who has been with me for years and who I've accommodated many times in the past. This year I decided I was going to continue taking Fridays off in July and August (which I started a couple of years ago because they were on a M-Th schedule which I graciously allowed...) They were not thrilled with my decision and as much as I love the little guy, I know they could pull because of it. It just the business.
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Originally posted by tntsmom View PostYes, it is the business and I have been doing this since my oldest was in kdg and he is now a sophomore in college and I still have a 15 year old at home and decided why should I stay open on Friday afternoons when my parents are off on them as well. And they use every excuse in the book why there late, things happen for a reason, reality is, I guess it is better so I do not feel obligated to watch her little ones while she has the afternoon off and gets to have "girls lunch". My turn!
I don't know if I'll ever go back to being one 5 days a week in the summer because this time with MY kids/family has meant more to me than any dck has (and I've had really good dck's)
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Originally posted by tntsmom View PostYes, it is the business and I have been doing this since my oldest was in kdg and he is now a sophomore in college and I still have a 15 year old at home and decided why should I stay open on Friday afternoons when my parents are off on them as well. And they use every excuse in the book why there late, things happen for a reason, reality is, I guess it is better so I do not feel obligated to watch her little ones while she has the afternoon off and gets to have "girls lunch". My turn!
Perhaps in the future you could attach a fee (even if it is something extremely low) to additional services you provide so you don't feel taken advantage of should a situation like this occur again.
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It is one of the most annoying parts of this business for sure. When I ended up in the hospital one DCM's only question to my wife when letting her know I was in the hospital was how I handled refunds for days I was closed. Thanks for concern lady
NEVER feel bad about doing something for you and your family.
BTW- around here Thursday evening- all day Friday (including Friday evening) garage sales are common. Leaves the weekend free.
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oh yeah, btdt. I had a family pull their kid when I was about to take my vacation. They were in TX for 2 weeks. I give one week free for vacation, as long as there's a month notice. They gave me the month notice, and I told them when I was taking my vacation. With the paid holidays, and my paid vacation week, it was almost 2 weeks I was paid to be off. They were not thrilled & thought I was unreliable, even though they'd signed the contract and known about my vacation/holiday policy. I was irritated that they pulled to avoid paying my holiday and vacation pay, but had just gotten their free vacation week. (They initially didn't want to pay/use their vacation week since dcg wasn't here. I explained about holding a space. ) And the killer was that they gave proper notice, which meant that the deposit (2 weeks pay) was used as their final 2 weeks payment, so I didn't actually get paid by them for 3 weeks, and they complained that I was unreliable.Yet, I was fine for 9 months?!
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