Originally posted by EntropyControlSpecialist
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Are you just trying to get her to sleep on her own during the day, with minimal rocking, etc, but want to keep co-sleeping at night?
If that's the case, I think you would actually be making the whole thing way harder on little muffin. If she learns to go to sleep on her own in the day, she can also resettle at night. It's unlikely that she NEEDS night time nutrition (unless she's 100% breastfed yet, which is cool, but changes the dynamics).
If you really, really, believe she's hungry at night, then keep the nursing as simple as possible. No talking, dim lights, no singing, no rocking, etc. Just a drink, then back to bed. Otherwise, treat it like you do naps. Routine, tuck her in, say good night, and leave. If she wakes at night, give her a few minutes to resettle on her own before going in. If she's sleeping in your room, get her out of there. If she can hear you breathing, she's not going to be cool with you ignoring her.
It's hard enough when we have a dck doing one thing at home (at night) than at daycare. Now, you're adding that she is in the same place both times, and I'm afraid she can't yet tell the difference between night and day sleep. What she can learn, though, is that HER bed is a warm, cozy, special place that mommy puts her in and she gets to go night-night. Yeah! happyface
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