I agree, I wouldn't cater to her --- HOWEVER! If you are still worried, or she doesn't seem to be budging, you could just serve one of the things she eats as the lunch for a meal or two a week, that way you know she will have eaten lunch a few times...
I also agree that there could sometimes be another circumstance at play, but I don't think that sounds like the case - if it were something like autism or a sensory processing disorder, you would see it in many other areas of her life, not just lunch time.
I'd tell everyone the new rules when she comes back : every one has the same lunch. No crying at lunch. If you don't like what we are having, you don't have to eat it, but no one gets anything other than what I've served. If you are choosing not to eat, you still need to sit with us at the table, and we will all get up when lunch time is over.
(for me it's too hard to let kids go to rest time before everyone else bc they screw around )
Good luck!
I also agree that there could sometimes be another circumstance at play, but I don't think that sounds like the case - if it were something like autism or a sensory processing disorder, you would see it in many other areas of her life, not just lunch time.
I'd tell everyone the new rules when she comes back : every one has the same lunch. No crying at lunch. If you don't like what we are having, you don't have to eat it, but no one gets anything other than what I've served. If you are choosing not to eat, you still need to sit with us at the table, and we will all get up when lunch time is over.
(for me it's too hard to let kids go to rest time before everyone else bc they screw around )
Good luck!
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