I recently took on a child I had termed before for behavior at age 3(last straw was unbuckling car seat and climbing around moving vehicle). She has been through over 20 providers/centers in 5 years. I told mom we would give it another shot as she was 2 years older. After a month of trial I was about to term again and mom confessed she was finally willing to try medication. Child does have severe ADHD confirmed diagnosis.
Meds worked like a charm. She turned into an agreeable delightful child to be around. Helpful, focused, interested.
Fast forward 2 months. Mom decides she doesn't like child not being her "true" personality and last 3 out of 4 days in attendance (she is part time few days a week) child has been unmedicated and it's back to a nightmare. Mom cries when I tried to talk to her about issue.
I am perfectly willing to support this family of 2 by continuing to provide stable high quality care, IF she takes medication. If she's not going to continue meds or if she's just going to give them now and then, I want to give them their final termination notice.
Does anyone have any advice about how to explain this to mom? Or should I just stay away from the whole issue and just term them without any explanation or trying to work anything out. I do not need the money so that is not an issue. I just feel that I can not provide the level of care she needs if she is not medicated.
Meds worked like a charm. She turned into an agreeable delightful child to be around. Helpful, focused, interested.
Fast forward 2 months. Mom decides she doesn't like child not being her "true" personality and last 3 out of 4 days in attendance (she is part time few days a week) child has been unmedicated and it's back to a nightmare. Mom cries when I tried to talk to her about issue.
I am perfectly willing to support this family of 2 by continuing to provide stable high quality care, IF she takes medication. If she's not going to continue meds or if she's just going to give them now and then, I want to give them their final termination notice.
Does anyone have any advice about how to explain this to mom? Or should I just stay away from the whole issue and just term them without any explanation or trying to work anything out. I do not need the money so that is not an issue. I just feel that I can not provide the level of care she needs if she is not medicated.
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