I'm noticing that more parents are practicing hands-off parenting. Trying to talk kids into doing what's right instead of physically "helping" the child do it.
ex: Interview time. The child is turning 2 in a couple of weeks. It's time to leave and he doesn't want to put the cars he is playing with away. Mom is trying asking him to put them away, the child is not complying. I take the little car bin over to the child, put it under his hands, and say, "It's time to put the cars away so they will be here when you come back to play with us next week." He doesn't want to and doesn't comply. So I gently press on the back of each hand one at a time so that he drops the car in the bucket while saying, "I know it's hard to clean up when you're having so much fun so I'll help you a little bit." He whines a bit, but then moves on and easily leaves with his parents.
This is a trend I'm noticing. More and more hands-off.
Am I wrong for physically insisting on compliance? I also pick children up and hand them to their parents when they are getting into things at the sign-out table/cubbies at pick up time....while their parents are just asking them to put things back.
ex: Interview time. The child is turning 2 in a couple of weeks. It's time to leave and he doesn't want to put the cars he is playing with away. Mom is trying asking him to put them away, the child is not complying. I take the little car bin over to the child, put it under his hands, and say, "It's time to put the cars away so they will be here when you come back to play with us next week." He doesn't want to and doesn't comply. So I gently press on the back of each hand one at a time so that he drops the car in the bucket while saying, "I know it's hard to clean up when you're having so much fun so I'll help you a little bit." He whines a bit, but then moves on and easily leaves with his parents.
This is a trend I'm noticing. More and more hands-off.
Am I wrong for physically insisting on compliance? I also pick children up and hand them to their parents when they are getting into things at the sign-out table/cubbies at pick up time....while their parents are just asking them to put things back.
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