My first thoughts were exactly the same as Black Cats.
He's only 2.25. I've had many 18 month olds that loved to paint but this kiddo isn't ready and and it is developmentally appropriate. Now if he was 4 and putting the paintbrush in his mouth that wouldn't be dev. appropriate.
Now it wouldn't bother me he wasn't ready to paint or sit in circle time. And the hoarding of toys and thinking all toys are "his" made me think of this poem that has been around a long time time but still holds true!
TODDLER’S RULES
1.1- If I want it, it's mine
2- If it's in my hand, it's mine
3- If I can take it away from
you, it's mine
4- If I had it a little while ago, it's mine
5- If it's mine, it must never appear
to be yours in any way
6- If we are building something together,
all the pieces are mine
7- If it just looks like mine, it's mine
8- If I think it's mine, it's mine
9- If I give it to you and change
my mind later, it's mine
10- Once it's mine it will never belong
to anyone else, no matter what
Author: Unknown
That said it isn't easy when it gets extreme!
You also said he hits and pushes while trying to take toys. That's hard to deal with and you have to decide if you have the fortitude to get him beyond this stage.
Waking up other kids at nap would be my cracking point. So yes, this kiddo is a handful.
One year I had all early 2's and under except one 4 yr old girl. The 2's never played with toys really. All girls except one 14 mo. Boy. While they loved playdoh, painting, puzzles , circle time the only other thing they liked to do was dump out toys, walk around pushing the grocery carts and putting dress up clothes on.
All my lovely toys just SAT! I longed for the day they would play with the doll house, kitchen or little people, etc.
They'd dump everything, which I understood so I cut way back on how much was in a bin. In the kitchen....2 plates, a few pieces of food and a frying pan, 6 little people in a bin not 15, etc.
I got out 5 gallon Easter pails ( like ice cream buckets) and they were in heaven toting around those few items from the few bins I had out. They'd dump and put the things back and carry them around and dump again or put the items in a grocery cart & push them around. Around and around they'd push those carts. They loved it.
I put out mainly self contained toys with only a few pieces or no pieces like a bead maze.
I had this beautiful Melissa and Doug wooden block village. The 14 mo. Boy wanted to just bang the blocks together and they were getting chipped. I wanted builders and got a smasher which was really so appropriate!!!
I had to adapt what I envisioned big time. I'd never had such a young group.
If I had such a young group again I'd have way different expectations.
He's only 2.25. I've had many 18 month olds that loved to paint but this kiddo isn't ready and and it is developmentally appropriate. Now if he was 4 and putting the paintbrush in his mouth that wouldn't be dev. appropriate.
Now it wouldn't bother me he wasn't ready to paint or sit in circle time. And the hoarding of toys and thinking all toys are "his" made me think of this poem that has been around a long time time but still holds true!
TODDLER’S RULES
1.1- If I want it, it's mine
2- If it's in my hand, it's mine
3- If I can take it away from
you, it's mine
4- If I had it a little while ago, it's mine
5- If it's mine, it must never appear
to be yours in any way
6- If we are building something together,
all the pieces are mine
7- If it just looks like mine, it's mine
8- If I think it's mine, it's mine
9- If I give it to you and change
my mind later, it's mine
10- Once it's mine it will never belong
to anyone else, no matter what
Author: Unknown
That said it isn't easy when it gets extreme!
You also said he hits and pushes while trying to take toys. That's hard to deal with and you have to decide if you have the fortitude to get him beyond this stage.
Waking up other kids at nap would be my cracking point. So yes, this kiddo is a handful.
One year I had all early 2's and under except one 4 yr old girl. The 2's never played with toys really. All girls except one 14 mo. Boy. While they loved playdoh, painting, puzzles , circle time the only other thing they liked to do was dump out toys, walk around pushing the grocery carts and putting dress up clothes on.
All my lovely toys just SAT! I longed for the day they would play with the doll house, kitchen or little people, etc.
They'd dump everything, which I understood so I cut way back on how much was in a bin. In the kitchen....2 plates, a few pieces of food and a frying pan, 6 little people in a bin not 15, etc.
I got out 5 gallon Easter pails ( like ice cream buckets) and they were in heaven toting around those few items from the few bins I had out. They'd dump and put the things back and carry them around and dump again or put the items in a grocery cart & push them around. Around and around they'd push those carts. They loved it.
I put out mainly self contained toys with only a few pieces or no pieces like a bead maze.
I had this beautiful Melissa and Doug wooden block village. The 14 mo. Boy wanted to just bang the blocks together and they were getting chipped. I wanted builders and got a smasher which was really so appropriate!!!
I had to adapt what I envisioned big time. I'd never had such a young group.
If I had such a young group again I'd have way different expectations.
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