Hello providers,
I would love if you were able to give me advice on this situation. I'm sure someone has had a parent like this. I had a family start with me on August 29th. Their little boy is 8 months old. I was really excited because mom is a teacher and teachers are always my best clients. They are reasonable and understanding. I prepared myself taking this family on because I know a baby who is just entering daycare at 8 months old for the first time and being nursed may take him a while to adjust. He has been with me 3 weeks and it has been difficult. I have had to spend a lot of the day holding him and getting him to sleep is a chore. This is fine though because i expected it. Before they started with me mom asked if she could come during the day to see the other kids and me in action. She came and stayed about one hour and a half. Then she asked if she could bring him for 2 trial days which I agreed to before he started. Now we are going on week 4. Last week she accidentally sent me a text which was supposed to go to her hubby. It said she would be talking to me about her concerns. When she came to pick me up she said she is having a hard time knowing where he sleeps and where he eats and is having horrible visions in her head and she started crying. She asked if she could come again at pick up and see where he eats and sleeps and would like me to teach her what I do. I told her I would do it. She picks up around 3:45 and I have other kids here that I need to start getting ready around 4 for pick up. I don't want to do this for her again. How do I tell her nicely that I can't be walking on eggshells around a worried parent. That makes my job very difficult. All the parents I have now are easy and they trust me and my care. I have been nice sending her numerous updates during the day since they are new and pictures. Normally I do this once a day for each parent. Any advice would be appreciated!!
I would love if you were able to give me advice on this situation. I'm sure someone has had a parent like this. I had a family start with me on August 29th. Their little boy is 8 months old. I was really excited because mom is a teacher and teachers are always my best clients. They are reasonable and understanding. I prepared myself taking this family on because I know a baby who is just entering daycare at 8 months old for the first time and being nursed may take him a while to adjust. He has been with me 3 weeks and it has been difficult. I have had to spend a lot of the day holding him and getting him to sleep is a chore. This is fine though because i expected it. Before they started with me mom asked if she could come during the day to see the other kids and me in action. She came and stayed about one hour and a half. Then she asked if she could bring him for 2 trial days which I agreed to before he started. Now we are going on week 4. Last week she accidentally sent me a text which was supposed to go to her hubby. It said she would be talking to me about her concerns. When she came to pick me up she said she is having a hard time knowing where he sleeps and where he eats and is having horrible visions in her head and she started crying. She asked if she could come again at pick up and see where he eats and sleeps and would like me to teach her what I do. I told her I would do it. She picks up around 3:45 and I have other kids here that I need to start getting ready around 4 for pick up. I don't want to do this for her again. How do I tell her nicely that I can't be walking on eggshells around a worried parent. That makes my job very difficult. All the parents I have now are easy and they trust me and my care. I have been nice sending her numerous updates during the day since they are new and pictures. Normally I do this once a day for each parent. Any advice would be appreciated!!
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