Tasha!!!!!

[Thriftylady]

Exactly. I went back and re-read only Tashas posts (I had nothing else to do when I ate my lasagna ) and nowhere did she slander anyone. In fact in 2 different posts, she said that she didn't believe the woman to be a bad person and also that she didn't think she was evil. So "unregistered" has no merit.

Yep and just because she was "logged in" doesn't mean she was online on the boards. It only means she never logged out. My activity likely shows me logged in for days and weeks at a time, sometimes when I am out in the semi with DH and not near my computer .

[Unregistered]

Instead of speculation, we got to look at the facts. Bottom line, the mother did not respect Tasha. She brought her kid early, then arrived late, and continued to give her attitude. Tasha did the right thing and came on here to ask for advice. She should be able to do that because last time I checked, this is the place for all providers to come on here and ask for advice. To me, slander is if you call others really horrible names. Nowhere in her posts did I see Tasha do this.

All we can do now is continue to pray for Tasha's safety.

We don't have facts, though. We're just believing the things Tasha are telling us. One person is question her and she's gone? Hmmm

[lovemykidstoo]

We don't have facts, though. We're just believing the things Tasha are telling us. One person is question her and she's gone? Hmmm

I really don't think Tasha made that up. Why would she. She has over 650 posts here. On the other hand,you only have, well, I guess I don't know because none of your information shows up. I just don't know what the purpose would be to make a story up. Especially since it's not really a huge story. So many of us have had parents that have similar behavior.

[Thriftylady]

We don't have facts, though. We're just believing the things Tasha are telling us. One person is question her and she's gone? Hmmm

Sure we do her facts. And one person questioning her? No you are just being a bully. And if you haven't noticed, you aren't welcome here! This is a place for providers to support each other. Sometimes we do tell someone something they may not want to hear, but we do it out of kindness and love. You are not doing any such thing. You are just being a pure bully.

[Unregistered]

Sure we do her facts. And one person questioning her? No you are just being a bully. And if you haven't noticed, you aren't welcome here! This is a place for providers to support each other. Sometimes we do tell someone something they may not want to hear, but we do it out of kindness and love. You are not doing any such thing. You are just being a pure bully.

I'm a bully for not going blindly with the crowd? :/ You sure sound sweet yourself.

[lovemykidstoo]

Sure we do her facts. And one person questioning her? No you are just being a bully. And if you haven't noticed, you aren't welcome here! This is a place for providers to support each other. Sometimes we do tell someone something they may not want to hear, but we do it out of kindness and love. You are not doing any such thing. You are just being a pure bully.

Exactly and if this person doesn't believe Tasha, then move on to another thread. Why continue here? I still don't understand why it is that people are allowed to post under "unregistered". It always is someone like this trying to tick people off. When we post with our name, people are respectful even if we don't agree. If you can see that it's someone that has 3 posts and posting like this person, you would probably just ignore knowing it's a troll but when it's unregistered, you don't know if it's a regular person or not.

[SnowGirl]

I really do think a good part of this "event" was either made up or exaggerated and now that Tasha was called out, she knows she has to have an elaborate story (real or fake). I also think the mother found out she was being talked about. Like I said, I think she was painted to be the big bad wolf. I think Tasha and/or licensing was called. Basically, if something happened Tasha knows the mother will checking the Is for dots and Ts for crosses if she recounts any thing on ward. I will say I am not the mother. You know, though, guys we always have to be careful when we post. Giving the timing and specific nature of our jobs, we're only ONE detail away from outing ourselves from people we know/clients. It's not like we can say like millions of others "My coworker is a really jerk. He snuck into my cubicle and ate my lunch". That could be anyone.

This thread was made specifically out of concern and support for Tasha.

Go. Away. Troll.

[NightOwl]

Exactly and if this person doesn't believe Tasha, then move on to another thread. Why continue here? I still don't understand why it is that people are allowed to post under "unregistered". It always is someone like this trying to tick people off. When we post with our name, people are respectful even if we don't agree. If you can see that it's someone that has 3 posts and posting like this person, you would probably just ignore knowing it's a troll but when it's unregistered, you don't know if it's a regular person or not.

Exactly. This is why I try to only make new threads in the members only area. You have to be registered to post there.

I've been attacked viciously in the past by an unregistered poster, so I try to minimize their opportunities to troll me.

[Blackcat31]

Well that was fun

Tasha can start her own thread when she is ready to update everyone.

[daycare]

Well that was a side I didn't see this going.
Ugh.

Hope all is well.

[Michael]

I'm just saying from a certain point, the events as told by the OP gave me a feeling that something was off. Now, she's not posting. I'm pretty sure if things ended with DCM acting crazy Tasha would jump on the computer to tell us. She was logged in all day yesterday. She was online. It just seemed Tasha was glued to the thread. Now, nothing. If something happened, I will apologize. It just seems like something isn't adding up here. I'm the only questioning it and everyone is following the OP. I'm not some weirdo with no friends. Friendship and loyalty are important, but friends sometimes aren't 100% truthful. I've just gotten and am getting the boy who cried wolf vibes. Where's the wolf?

This is an odd statement. So because Tasha didn't show up same time, same channel you think her story is bogus? This isn't supposed to be entertainment here. The plot is not supposed to thicken. I think your reality is a bit skewed.