Tasha!!!!!

[Josiegirl]

Maybe she just needed time to decompress. There were some not so nice posts on there and given the whole situation, I personally, would be very overwhelmed. We're all here for you, Tasha!

I hope that's what it is. Sometimes when a situation evolves so much, it takes our whole world over. To function again, we need to back away from it all.

:hug:

[Jujube835]

I wonder if the DCM was in fact on that board and Tasha got in hot water over it

That's my worst fear!

[SnowGirl]

I wonder if the DCM was in fact on that board and Tasha got in hot water over it

That's my worst fear!

But the only thing that could happen is DCM gets really angry about it. Tasha didn't DO anything wrong, right? No names or locations were given.

[Thriftylady]

But the only thing that could happen is DCM gets really angry about it. Tasha didn't DO anything wrong, right? No names or locations were given.

This. She gave no personal info so other than being angry, which she probably already was over being told no, there isn't anything.

[Unregistered]

She was logged in all day yesterday until 10:20ish or so at night so she came to log off... but no reply.

I really do think a good part of this "event" was either made up or exaggerated and now that Tasha was called out, she knows she has to have an elaborate story (real or fake). I also think the mother found out she was being talked about. Like I said, I think she was painted to be the big bad wolf. I think Tasha and/or licensing was called. Basically, if something happened Tasha knows the mother will checking the Is for dots and Ts for crosses if she recounts any thing on ward. I will say I am not the mother. You know, though, guys we always have to be careful when we post. Giving the timing and specific nature of our jobs, we're only ONE detail away from outing ourselves from people we know/clients. It's not like we can say like millions of others "My coworker is a really jerk. He snuck into my cubicle and ate my lunch". That could be anyone.

[Thriftylady]

I really do think a good part of this "event" was either made up or exaggerated and now that Tasha was called out, she knows she has to have an elaborate story (real or fake). I also think the mother found out she was being talked about. Like I said, I think she was painted to be the big bad wolf. I think Tasha and/or licensing was called. Basically, if something happened Tasha knows the mother will checking the Is for dots and Ts for crosses if she recounts any thing on ward. I will say I am not the mother. You know, though, guys we always have to be careful when we post. Giving the timing and specific nature of our jobs, we're only ONE detail away from outing ourselves from people we know/clients. It's not like we can say like millions of others "My coworker is a really jerk. He snuck into my cubicle and ate my lunch". That could be anyone.

Oh I bet you are Tasha's DCM. I would have termed you too!

[lovemykidstoo]

I really do think a good part of this "event" was either made up or exaggerated and now that Tasha was called out, she knows she has to have an elaborate story (real or fake). I also think the mother found out she was being talked about. Like I said, I think she was painted to be the big bad wolf. I think Tasha and/or licensing was called. Basically, if something happened Tasha knows the mother will checking the Is for dots and Ts for crosses if she recounts any thing on ward. I will say I am not the mother. You know, though, guys we always have to be careful when we post. Giving the timing and specific nature of our jobs, we're only ONE detail away from outing ourselves from people we know/clients. It's not like we can say like millions of others "My coworker is a really jerk. He snuck into my cubicle and ate my lunch". That could be anyone.

I don't know why you would think her story is made up. For those of us in childcare a parent that is very early and also late are sometimes a daily occurence. It's not like she had a story that was so outlandish. I also don't think she said anything wrong. This is a daycare forum where we compare notes, complain about our day. If the parent doesn't like it, oh well. They should be an hour and a half early or late.

[Unregistered]

I don't know why you would think her story is made up. For those of us in childcare a parent that is very early and also late are sometimes a daily occurence. It's not like she had a story that was so outlandish. I also don't think she said anything wrong. This is a daycare forum where we compare notes, complain about our day. If the parent doesn't like it, oh well. They should be an hour and a half early or late.

I am a provider and was a teacher. I've dealt with parents. My husband has a more traditional job. I know how detail specific our work is in regards to privacy. I never took the mom's side. However, I notice the "event" Tasha was telling was sorta "wah wah wah. Whatca gonna do?" then it turned into psycho crazy mom who is going to come to her house on Monday and like wreck the place. I just don't get how if the mom was going to harm her or her property, why she wouldn't have done it Friday? I think the OP was annoyed by some rude behavior. Like all of us, she made the story more interesting. Now, the DCM is going to bother or something. When I tell my DH I was hit on. It was by some guy who's ok. I'll say "Oh, he looked like Johnny Depp". I think the mom sent her the snotty email. Maybe called once. I don't believe she called all weekend.

Tasha has her location in her posts and supposedly the email is word for word. If the mom was Googling daycares, she could have found this. The info Tasha has posted is identifying. Second, if she is not being honest, the mom can say she slandering her character.

[Ariana]

I am a provider and was a teacher. I've dealt with parents. My husband has a more traditional job. I know how detail specific our work is in regards to privacy. I never took the mom's side. However, I notice the "event" Tasha was telling was sorta "wah wah wah. Whatca gonna do?" then it turned into psycho crazy mom who is going to come to her house on Monday and like wreck the place. I just don't get how if the mom was going to harm her or her property, why she wouldn't have done it Friday? I think the OP was annoyed by some rude behavior. Like all of us, she made the story more interesting. Now, the DCM is going to bother or something. When I tell my DH I was hit on. It was by some guy who's ok. I'll say "Oh, he looked like Johnny Depp". I think the mom sent her the snotty email. Maybe called once. I don't believe she called all weekend.

Tasha has her location in her posts and supposedly the email is word for word. If the mom was Googling daycares, she could have found this. The info Tasha has posted is identifying. Second, if she is not being honest, the mom can say she slandering her character.

Did you actually read her posts? It seems like you didn't at all!! Other people were telling her not to open her door etc just in case the mom turned psycho. It wasn't Tasha. Slander? Of what? Her good name in the community because of an anonymous forum post? So ridiculous.

Maybe Tasha suffers from a multiple personality disorder and she was Tasha and the other unregistrered posters. We could speculate all day. The bottom line is that this is a forum so we respond to specific posts, not speculation on what is going on behind the scenes.

[Thriftylady]

I am a provider and was a teacher. I've dealt with parents. My husband has a more traditional job. I know how detail specific our work is in regards to privacy. I never took the mom's side. However, I notice the "event" Tasha was telling was sorta "wah wah wah. Whatca gonna do?" then it turned into psycho crazy mom who is going to come to her house on Monday and like wreck the place. I just don't get how if the mom was going to harm her or her property, why she wouldn't have done it Friday? I think the OP was annoyed by some rude behavior. Like all of us, she made the story more interesting. Now, the DCM is going to bother or something. When I tell my DH I was hit on. It was by some guy who's ok. I'll say "Oh, he looked like Johnny Depp". I think the mom sent her the snotty email. Maybe called once. I don't believe she called all weekend.

Tasha has her location in her posts and supposedly the email is word for word. If the mom was Googling daycares, she could have found this. The info Tasha has posted is identifying. Second, if she is not being honest, the mom can say she slandering her character.

Maybe you want to be a doormat and let people show up whenever they please and set your hours for you. Most of us don't do that. For a teacher and daycare provider you sure are quick to call someone names. Calling someone a liar is worse than what Tasha did here. She didn't call the mom any names at all. And those of us who told her not to open her door have had experiences that made us tell her that. Did you not read the thread right here on this forum today where the mom attacked a principal over being told her sick child couldn't come to school? Princess mommies like you must be don't like being told NO. And sometimes they behave badly. When they do you don't keep giving them chances to behave just as bad or worse.

[midaycare]

Don't feed it.

[Mandy]

Instead of speculation, we got to look at the facts. Bottom line, the mother did not respect Tasha. She brought her kid early, then arrived late, and continued to give her attitude. Tasha did the right thing and came on here to ask for advice. She should be able to do that because last time I checked, this is the place for all providers to come on here and ask for advice. To me, slander is if you call others really horrible names. Nowhere in her posts did I see Tasha do this.

All we can do now is continue to pray for Tasha's safety.

[Mandy]

Don't feed it.

You my friend are so right . I saw your post after I sent mine in. Im not sure how to delete posts now but I am hoping your friend is ok xx

[Unregistered]

Did you actually read her posts? It seems like you didn't at all!! Other people were telling her not to open her door etc just in case the mom turned psycho. It wasn't Tasha. Slander? Of what? Her good name in the community because of an anonymous forum post? So ridiculous.

Maybe Tasha suffers from a multiple personality disorder and she was Tasha and the other unregistrered posters. We could speculate all day. The bottom line is that this is a forum so we respond to specific posts, not speculation on what is going on behind the scenes.

I'm just saying from a certain point, the events as told by the OP gave me a feeling that something was off. Now, she's not posting. I'm pretty sure if things ended with DCM acting crazy Tasha would jump on the computer to tell us. She was logged in all day yesterday. She was online. It just seemed Tasha was glued to the thread. Now, nothing. If something happened, I will apologize. It just seems like something isn't adding up here. I'm the only questioning it and everyone is following the OP. I'm not some weirdo with no friends. Friendship and loyalty are important, but friends sometimes aren't 100% truthful. I've just gotten and am getting the boy who cried wolf vibes. Where's the wolf?

[lovemykidstoo]

Instead of speculation, we got to look at the facts. Bottom line, the mother did not respect Tasha. She brought her kid early, then arrived late, and continued to give her attitude. Tasha did the right thing and came on here to ask for advice. She should be able to do that because last time I checked, this is the place for all providers to come on here and ask for advice. To me, slander is if you call others really horrible names. Nowhere in her posts did I see Tasha do this.

All we can do now is continue to pray for Tasha's safety.

Exactly. I went back and re-read only Tashas posts (I had nothing else to do when I ate my lasagna ) and nowhere did she slander anyone. In fact in 2 different posts, she said that she didn't believe the woman to be a bad person and also that she didn't think she was evil. So "unregistered" has no merit.