Originally posted by Nebula
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I've rarely left my kids with ANY providers. My son has never been left with ANYONE other than two overnight stays at a very good friend of mines house. I used to nanny her kids a while back and they moved two hours away. She invited both of my kids to spend the night there twice since they moved. She is married now to the most wonderful man ever. He isn't her daughters dad though. I would trust this guy and gal before my own husband .
With me, although my children haven't ever stayed with an official male provider, I never made a decision based on sex. Just very few guys do daycare here.
My kids have had male teachers at school though, one in particular was AWESOME.
I'd have to agree there are very few lady providers I'd leave my kids with either. I had a couple of bad experiences when my daughter was very small and that's why our son has never been in anyone's care.
I think it's very unfair to say that sex of the provider should be a deal breaker. I think it should be their program, facility, etc that makes that decision,
But I've found here that there are a lot of providers who wouldn't leave their child with certain stereotypical things like males, people who drink a glass of wine outside of daycare, people who smoke outside of daycare, have piercings, tattoos etc.
It's actually quite sad that closed minded people are those who are spending 50 hours a week with kids trying to teach these kids to be open minded non judge mental members of society.
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