To quit watching a family because the cigarette smoke on their clothes and bags is making me miserable? I'm not being over dramatic. I honestly can't breathe. As soon as they come in I can feel my airway swell and it takes hours after they leave to feel better.
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Nope. Your house, your rules. I have in my handbook that I will not allow strong smells, good (perfumes) or bad (smoke) due to allergy issues. I would mention it to the family first and then if it doesn't improve, terminate. Sometimes it is hard for smokers to actually smell the smoke, as they are so used to the smell.
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No in fact studies have found 3rd hand smoke. ( the residue from clothes , drapes and furniture is actually worse than second hand smoke.)http://lungcancer.about.com/od/Lung-...Hand-Smoke.htmIt:: will wait
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Originally posted by jessrlee View PostTo quit watching a family because the cigarette smoke on their clothes and bags is making me miserable? I'm not being over dramatic. I honestly can't breathe. As soon as they come in I can feel my airway swell and it takes hours after they leave to feel better.
I didn't post this to complain about my situation but I wanted to give you an idea of what may happen with your family. I would tell your concerns to your family but be prepared for them to leave before you have a chance to term them. More than likely they will be the ones that are offended by your reaction to their lifestyle and pin you as the bad guy. I would also give them a very strict time limit for them to change and stick to it.
Good luck to you.
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As a years long on again off again (currently ON!) smoker - even I would not put up with the stink you are describing. If it is causing you serious problems it's absolutely NOT out of line to stop the problem - perhaps discuss the issue first and if you don't notice immediate and consistant improvement then give notice.
Cigarette smell is completely disgusting (even for smokers) so I can just imagine how intolerable it is to non-smokers. I don't smoke in my home, but I come from a home that was smoked in my whole life and I know how yucky it is and because of that I always try to be as respectful as possible to all non-smokers.
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Thanks for all of the support! I'm trying to figure out how to talk to her today. I get that she probably has no idea. I really don't want to offend her!! My parents smoke like chimneys and I can't even stand to go over there. I end up having respitory problems for weeks after a 2 hour visit.
ugh I just know I'm going to tick her off! I'm just a chicken. That's why I would rather just term so they can be ticked and I won't have to deal with it...
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I usually discuss all (even sensitive) issues in person - but because your concerned about offending the mom, perhaps an email or letter would be better for you?
Dear Jane,
I am writing to inform you that I have found over time that I have developed a fairly serious sensitivity to the smell of cigarette smoke. I am finding that the scent that is on little Johnny's clothing and bag is causing me discomfort and breathing issues throughout the day, even into the evening after daycare hours.
I am not sure if this is an issue that you are able to help correct, but I do need to see an improvement in the near future in order to be able to continue to provide care.
Please know that this is not a personal attack in any way - it's simply become a health issue for me and I need to address it for my own best interest as well as the interest of my business... it's difficult to work when I am exhibiting labored breathing, etc.
I appreciate your attention and understanding in this matter.
Sincerely,
Jessrlee
^ That would be my final warning in this situation - and if I didn't notice a change within 2 weeks max I would have to terminate.
Good luck
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Originally posted by littlemissmuffet View PostI usually discuss all (even sensitive) issues in person - but because your concerned about offending the mom, perhaps an email or letter would be better for you?
Dear Jane,
I am writing to inform you that I have found over time that I have developed a fairly serious sensitivity to the smell of cigarette smoke. I am finding that the scent that is on little Johnny's clothing and bag is causing me discomfort and breathing issues throughout the day, even into the evening after daycare hours.
I am not sure if this is an issue that you are able to help correct, but I do need to see an improvement in the near future in order to be able to continue to provide care.
Please know that this is not a personal attack in any way - it's simply become a health issue for me and I need to address it for my own best interest as well as the interest of my business... it's difficult to work when I am exhibiting labored breathing, etc.
I appreciate your attention and understanding in this matter.
Sincerely,
Jessrlee
^ That would be my final warning in this situation - and if I didn't notice a change within 2 weeks max I would have to terminate.
Good luck
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Originally posted by itlw8 View PostNo in fact studies have found 3rd hand smoke. ( the residue from clothes , drapes and furniture is actually worse than second hand smoke.)http://lungcancer.about.com/od/Lung-...Hand-Smoke.htm
I have always said modern cigarettes are legalized meth!
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Many people on here have a "no scent policy", and it often includes cigarette smoke on clothes. I have asthma so I know what you mean. I also have thick/coarse hair so sometimes if I walk by someone smoking or where there was recently smoke the smell sticks to my hair and will not come out until I wash it. I would also try to make sure they understand that there is no smoking allowed on daycare property during daycare hours (a general rule in most FCC/DCC). If the smell is too much I would let the parents know that if their child smells like cigarette smoke they will not be admitted for the day (unless they take them home, bathe, and put on new clothes).
And remember, if you can smell it and it can make you sick; imagine how strong it is for the other children.
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