hi, I would appreciate any advice, insight people may have about this. My husband and I have a 4 year old daughter in daycare. She is there 3 days per week. She is very curious and bright, as lots of preschoolers are. On several occasions she has asked other children at daycare to play doctor. She wants to see their privates, has never touched another child. Her daycare provider is very upset about it and is not allowing her to be with other children out of her sight. My husband and I have been parenting for 19 years. I reinforce the daycare rules, but beyond that have chalked it up to being developmentally appropriate. We have books and anatomically correct dolls she can play with at home. I gave our provider some written info about this being okay in preschoolers, but again told her that we would definitely reinforce her rules. Since then, though, our provider seems short with us. She isn't as friendly and the other day our daughter said, "Ashley, (our provider's own daughter) called me a brat. She said her mom thinks I am a brat too." (Our daughter doesn't know what a brat is and didn't seem put down by it. She just reported it matter-of-factly.)
I was heartbroken, but didn't want to assume that I was getting the correct story. You know how kids can be, but over time, it is bothering me a lot. I am thinking of giving our 2 week notice. Am I overreacting?
Just as an aside, our girl is spirited, but my husband and I insist on respectful behavior. She has clear limits and we are consistent with them. No one has ever thought she was a brat. On the contrary, she can be very sweet and kind, especially to younger children. Thank you very much.
I was heartbroken, but didn't want to assume that I was getting the correct story. You know how kids can be, but over time, it is bothering me a lot. I am thinking of giving our 2 week notice. Am I overreacting?
Just as an aside, our girl is spirited, but my husband and I insist on respectful behavior. She has clear limits and we are consistent with them. No one has ever thought she was a brat. On the contrary, she can be very sweet and kind, especially to younger children. Thank you very much.
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