***. This is complicated. I have a 3yo DD where the 1st D sometimes stands for darling and other times stands for devilish... She is a challenging child and I am the 1st one to admit it.
She is/was in a home daycare where things have been getting increasingly stressed because of her behavior. She is a strong-willed child who can be hard to handle. (She is also our 2nd, so we have been through this before with a difficult but not too hard kid.)
The daycare we chose professed to not use punishments like time-outs when we picked it almost a year ago. She claimed to have read books like "Setting Limits with your Strong Willed Child" and other books on positive discipline. My DD does not respond well to time-outs in any way and so we worked to chose a care giver who seemed educated on alternatives.
I'm going to make a long story short. On Friday things came to a head and the daycare provider apparently tried to do time-outs (which failed miserably) and ended up placing our DD in her daughter's bedroom and closing the door to enforce the time-out.
In response my DD peed on her child's bed. Not a small accident, but a full out pee that soaked the mattress. I got a call to come get her and I did.
I just got an e-mail telling me that if we want to continue bringing her there, we need to work out a new behavior plan and also pay for the cost to replace the soaked mattress. She claims to have tried to wash it with her green machine and it still smells...
I was hoping to keep my DD there until she starts preschool in the fall (she is being evaluated and will likely get a spot in a special needs school) but that's probably not going to happen.
It's being asked to replace the mattress that's really throwing me for a loop. That seems ridiculous. She should NOT have placed my child in that room in the 1st place. Is this normal?
She is/was in a home daycare where things have been getting increasingly stressed because of her behavior. She is a strong-willed child who can be hard to handle. (She is also our 2nd, so we have been through this before with a difficult but not too hard kid.)
The daycare we chose professed to not use punishments like time-outs when we picked it almost a year ago. She claimed to have read books like "Setting Limits with your Strong Willed Child" and other books on positive discipline. My DD does not respond well to time-outs in any way and so we worked to chose a care giver who seemed educated on alternatives.
I'm going to make a long story short. On Friday things came to a head and the daycare provider apparently tried to do time-outs (which failed miserably) and ended up placing our DD in her daughter's bedroom and closing the door to enforce the time-out.
In response my DD peed on her child's bed. Not a small accident, but a full out pee that soaked the mattress. I got a call to come get her and I did.
I just got an e-mail telling me that if we want to continue bringing her there, we need to work out a new behavior plan and also pay for the cost to replace the soaked mattress. She claims to have tried to wash it with her green machine and it still smells...
I was hoping to keep my DD there until she starts preschool in the fall (she is being evaluated and will likely get a spot in a special needs school) but that's probably not going to happen.
It's being asked to replace the mattress that's really throwing me for a loop. That seems ridiculous. She should NOT have placed my child in that room in the 1st place. Is this normal?
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