OH good grief. That's ridiculous. They help make the mess, they clean it up. End of story. I agree with nanny on most of it but still feel the need to put my own spin on a few parts...
Not sure WHY using both sides of the brain is a problem?! :confused:
No evidence that cleaning up as a child makes them clean up as adults? I wanna see a study that was done on this. I want your citation for "no evidence". I also want your citation for a study that was done suggesting the opposite, too--and a website saying, "a scientific study was conducted..." is NOT good enough. Nope, give me the REAL study.
Okay, so children need to develop reversability (I've studied Piaget and honestly, I've never heard of this?!? Unless I forgot). Oo look! I can play the fancy word game too! You model it for them until they reach the zone of proximal development for that skill, at which point you continue to assist as you scaffold them in that skill--gradually letting them take over more of the work, gradually removing yourself from the picture as they learn how to do pieces of the job. (Nanny, not all of us have older kids to teach these skills so we do have to be involved in the process for them to learn it). Putting stuff away isn't reversing an action, it's a different action all together.
You could look at it this way: it's not reversing what they have already done, it is doing something different. Putting the shapes in the bucket is a different skill than dumping them out, sure. So teach them the other skill too. If I had to guess, I'd say that reversing an action has a totally different definition. Even young toddlers are perfectly capable of dumping the bucket, then filling it, then dumping it again, then filling it again...
I can play the fancy term game again! Teaching children to clean up after themselves is pedagogically appropriate as it reinforces specific math concepts, including sorting, matching, and one-to-one correspondence, as well as giving children a sense of accomplishment and responsibility--both very important facets of a child's healthy emotional development. Ba dum ching!
This guy is a crack-pot and I'm tempted to respond as well. Good lord, I've never heard someone insinuate that asking children to clean up is not developmentally appropriate--for heaven's sake, children have been cleaning up after themselves since the dawn of time! Ever read the Laura Ingalls Wilder books?!
Not sure WHY using both sides of the brain is a problem?! :confused:
No evidence that cleaning up as a child makes them clean up as adults? I wanna see a study that was done on this. I want your citation for "no evidence". I also want your citation for a study that was done suggesting the opposite, too--and a website saying, "a scientific study was conducted..." is NOT good enough. Nope, give me the REAL study.
Okay, so children need to develop reversability (I've studied Piaget and honestly, I've never heard of this?!? Unless I forgot). Oo look! I can play the fancy word game too! You model it for them until they reach the zone of proximal development for that skill, at which point you continue to assist as you scaffold them in that skill--gradually letting them take over more of the work, gradually removing yourself from the picture as they learn how to do pieces of the job. (Nanny, not all of us have older kids to teach these skills so we do have to be involved in the process for them to learn it). Putting stuff away isn't reversing an action, it's a different action all together.
You could look at it this way: it's not reversing what they have already done, it is doing something different. Putting the shapes in the bucket is a different skill than dumping them out, sure. So teach them the other skill too. If I had to guess, I'd say that reversing an action has a totally different definition. Even young toddlers are perfectly capable of dumping the bucket, then filling it, then dumping it again, then filling it again...
I can play the fancy term game again! Teaching children to clean up after themselves is pedagogically appropriate as it reinforces specific math concepts, including sorting, matching, and one-to-one correspondence, as well as giving children a sense of accomplishment and responsibility--both very important facets of a child's healthy emotional development. Ba dum ching!
This guy is a crack-pot and I'm tempted to respond as well. Good lord, I've never heard someone insinuate that asking children to clean up is not developmentally appropriate--for heaven's sake, children have been cleaning up after themselves since the dawn of time! Ever read the Laura Ingalls Wilder books?!
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