When they are older 2, young 3 and just finishing being potty trained, I will assist. However there comes a point where my assistance is just looking to see if THEY need to wipe more. Like a pp mentioned, I do find that kids start to become embarrassed if I have to wipe them after a certain point in the potty training process.
On a side note, Last year I had a child who was going through a not wiping well phase. One night at pick up as he came over to me and his parents (we had been outside) it was clear he had a BM and had not wiped well (since we were outside I hadn't caught it to send him back to the bathroom) and dad said to me "I've told him to ask for help if he needs wiping" To which I replied "Dad' he's *FIVE* and off to K in one week, They won't wipe him at school, he has to learn how to do it"
That seemed to sink in, because there have been no issues since. But honestly at that age/stage? He didn't want me in the bathroom with him and certainly not wiping him. That's not to say I wouldn't have had he truly needed assistance. But in this case it was being in a rush to get back to playing.
On a side note, Last year I had a child who was going through a not wiping well phase. One night at pick up as he came over to me and his parents (we had been outside) it was clear he had a BM and had not wiped well (since we were outside I hadn't caught it to send him back to the bathroom) and dad said to me "I've told him to ask for help if he needs wiping" To which I replied "Dad' he's *FIVE* and off to K in one week, They won't wipe him at school, he has to learn how to do it"
That seemed to sink in, because there have been no issues since. But honestly at that age/stage? He didn't want me in the bathroom with him and certainly not wiping him. That's not to say I wouldn't have had he truly needed assistance. But in this case it was being in a rush to get back to playing.
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