Next week is DCB last week here, the family is moving out of state. DCB is always the last to leave & every night I always give a quick rundown about the day, & I also send home a daily report. DCM always stays for at least 20min talking about random stuff, even though I try my best to keep it short. Whenever this particular DCM picks up & my Husband isnt home, my preschooler gets super loud & runs crazy through our tiny house. DCM usually says stuff like, "wow! you have a lot of energy!" But lately I've been feeling like she is passively reprimanding my child. Today preschooler asked me something & DCM interrupted with, "Please!" DCM said something about my kid being full of energy again today, & (embarrassed) I said, Idk why this only happens when you pick up :confused: (honestly!!) & she said, oh it doesnt when SA Dad picks up? I told her no, my child usually hides because shes afraid of him. (he really does look scary) DCM told my preschooler that acting like that must hurt SA Dad's feelings. I dont understand why she feels the need to constantly say something to my kid! Its not like the kid is out of control, I think DCM is just taking up too much of my time every night!
So how do you handle this? I do not want parents telling me how to raise my child or run my daycare. Especially when they see only a snap shot of the entire day.
Also, how do you handle getting "Chatty-Cathy" out the door at the end of a long day? This DCM is suuuuper sweet, so I dont want to lose it on her. After next week I wont have to deal with this from her, but I want to be prepared in case it happens with another parent! TIA!
So how do you handle this? I do not want parents telling me how to raise my child or run my daycare. Especially when they see only a snap shot of the entire day.
Also, how do you handle getting "Chatty-Cathy" out the door at the end of a long day? This DCM is suuuuper sweet, so I dont want to lose it on her. After next week I wont have to deal with this from her, but I want to be prepared in case it happens with another parent! TIA!
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