Hello ladies and gentleman!
I have a wonderful family that I have NEVER had any issues with what so ever. DCM is very friendly and we chat most mornings before she leaves in the morning. Kids are very well behaved for the most part. They pay on time and follow rules to the T.
My issue is that DCG #1 is 2yo and dcd picks up everyday and was always here between 3:45 and 4:15 occasionally would come at about 4:20 if he was running really late picking up. Not an issue..... DCM has a baby DCB#2 he is now 4 mo. As soon as DCM went back to work he was picking up everyday at about 4:25. This is a lot later than he normally does.
I casually mentioned it to DCM and she asks DCD about it and he says he's been going in later so he has to stay later. Then DCD starts coming at 4:30. He then says he's been going home to the bathroom then coming to pick up kids.
This week he has been showing up at 5 to pick up the kids. They are the first ones here at 7:15 and the last ones to leave by 30 minutes to 45 minutes....
I am getting fed up with it.
Today I am going to have a chat with DCD about picking his kids up ASAP after work. He tells DCM he doesn't understand what the big deal is and he doesn't understand what the problem is.
What can I say to him to make him understand what the big deal is about spending quality time with his kids........
I have a wonderful family that I have NEVER had any issues with what so ever. DCM is very friendly and we chat most mornings before she leaves in the morning. Kids are very well behaved for the most part. They pay on time and follow rules to the T.
My issue is that DCG #1 is 2yo and dcd picks up everyday and was always here between 3:45 and 4:15 occasionally would come at about 4:20 if he was running really late picking up. Not an issue..... DCM has a baby DCB#2 he is now 4 mo. As soon as DCM went back to work he was picking up everyday at about 4:25. This is a lot later than he normally does.
I casually mentioned it to DCM and she asks DCD about it and he says he's been going in later so he has to stay later. Then DCD starts coming at 4:30. He then says he's been going home to the bathroom then coming to pick up kids.
This week he has been showing up at 5 to pick up the kids. They are the first ones here at 7:15 and the last ones to leave by 30 minutes to 45 minutes....
I am getting fed up with it.
Today I am going to have a chat with DCD about picking his kids up ASAP after work. He tells DCM he doesn't understand what the big deal is and he doesn't understand what the problem is.
What can I say to him to make him understand what the big deal is about spending quality time with his kids........
Comment