I have an almost 3 yr old dcb who is ridiculously spoiled. His mother has a degree in early childhood education. She is a young mother and just had her 2nd about 6 mos ago. The almost 3 yr old rules her. She absolutely can not say no to him. Apparently he does not like coming here in the mornings (he is perfectly happy after she leaves) so she bribes him with toys to bring here. Today he showed up with a portable DVD player. Are you kidding me? I said hows dcb today and she said "we had to use some bribery, the batteries probably wont last to long". I let him sit down at the preschool table with it and my ds who just turned 2 was so curious as to what it was. He sat down next to dcb and dcb freaked out, started wailing because my son was looking at Elmo on his DVD player. I was p*ssed. My son was being so good. He wasnt trying to touch it, he was just watching it from 2 feet away.
She (the mom) causes drama for me EVERYDAY. She is the mom who wont leave until she hands him to me. Yesterday I was getting my daughter some allergy medicine before she left for school and dcm tried to set him down but he started whining and she said "oh, you want (my name) to hold you". I sighed, like come on. I said "im trying to get my daughters medicine" and then she handed him to me. I am sooooo sick of it. I said "you are a big boy, you dont need to be held". How does someone with her education not know that it is OK to say NO sometimes? Next time she does this to me Im going to say "I know you dont like for him to cry, but honestly it doesnt bother me, so set him down and he will stop as soon as you go through the door".
And, back to the toy thing. It seriously is at least 3 days per week that he brings something. I usually confiscate it immediately after she leaves. I wouldnt have a problem with it if he shared or even let others see what he has, but he literally freaks if they even look his way. One of my dcg brought a zhu-zhu pet yesterday and I was shocked that her parents would send her with it, but honestly she shared it with everyone and they had a great time. If this were the case with him, I would be ok with the toy thing, but its not. How do you explain to someone who should know. Oh by the way, she is a consultant to home daycares, . She gives us advice when we have questions, like I want her answering my questions. NOT! Sorry for the vent.
She (the mom) causes drama for me EVERYDAY. She is the mom who wont leave until she hands him to me. Yesterday I was getting my daughter some allergy medicine before she left for school and dcm tried to set him down but he started whining and she said "oh, you want (my name) to hold you". I sighed, like come on. I said "im trying to get my daughters medicine" and then she handed him to me. I am sooooo sick of it. I said "you are a big boy, you dont need to be held". How does someone with her education not know that it is OK to say NO sometimes? Next time she does this to me Im going to say "I know you dont like for him to cry, but honestly it doesnt bother me, so set him down and he will stop as soon as you go through the door".
And, back to the toy thing. It seriously is at least 3 days per week that he brings something. I usually confiscate it immediately after she leaves. I wouldnt have a problem with it if he shared or even let others see what he has, but he literally freaks if they even look his way. One of my dcg brought a zhu-zhu pet yesterday and I was shocked that her parents would send her with it, but honestly she shared it with everyone and they had a great time. If this were the case with him, I would be ok with the toy thing, but its not. How do you explain to someone who should know. Oh by the way, she is a consultant to home daycares, . She gives us advice when we have questions, like I want her answering my questions. NOT! Sorry for the vent.
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