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Ok, so here is what I have done so far. I talked with mom. Mom has agreed that although she allows it at home she understands that I cannot allow it at daycare. Period. No exceptions. Mom has agreed to send dcg in restrictive clothing. Before she was being sent in sundresses every day. Dcg struggles with undoing normal clothes which is probably why they were doing sundresses, but I believe what she is sending her in will keep her out of that area for now. If it does not, I will absolutely put one piece thermal underwear under her clothes. I explained to dcg that this behavior is not acceptable at daycare and if it happens again she will be moved to a timeout spot and mom will be called to come and pick her up. For the time being, she is my shadow. Myself or an assistant will have line of sight with her at all times. Mom talked with her at home which must have helped because she has not tried it a single time today and I've been hyper aware. I am contacting my licensing rep to find out at what point they consider this needing to be reported. I also contacted the therapist who worked with her for 2 years before services were declined since she knows this child's exact sensory issues. I have written permission t discuss the child with the therapist. I'm hoping that would cover this. She explained that when a child who is this highly sensory seeking is not being offered therapy it makes perfect sense to her that the child would escalate things to seek more pleasure. Especially because of the added stress a divorce would cause in a 4 y.o.'s world. She worked closely with the family for 2 years and agrees with me that she doesn't believe this is an abuse issue, but a sensory issue that parents have allowed to get out of hand. She also gave me a list of indicators to look for that would typically go along with this if it was abuse. Mom has been looking into preschools to start dcg this fall and I believe she will have another eval when that takes place. Mom was convinced these issues would get better on their own if we gave dcg time. She felt too much therapy wasn't allowing her to be a normal kid, so I'm really hoping that with this next eval mom will see there are more issues than before. I will push strongly for services again at that time. Nannyde, if this situation doesn't improve immediately I will pm you for help in creating a written plan. Since mom has agreed to work with me, I will give it a few days to see how things are going, but if it continues I will have to report and term.
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Sounds like an awesome plan! They are very lucky to have you as their provider!!!
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