I have a 4 1/2 yr old (almost 5 yrs) dcg who has been with me since she was a baby. She has always been some what shy and has always had a fear to people coming into the house, such as "new" kids, she will cry and say she's scared and wants to go in the other room (I think it's just because she's afraid somehow someone else is just coming and jealous), the mailman ect, can totally understand that. I've always have reassured her kept her near me to help ease her fear. Well over the course of the last I don't even know year or more it has gotten worse, and it's not a "fear" persay all the time anymore she just cries and whines over everything and I don't ever usually know exactly what she's whining/crying over. Like she'll get really pouty and start to whine and cover her ears and I'll say what's wrong? and she'll either say I don't know or I dont' like everyone talking or it's too loud, (which it's not too loud), she will whine and cry if the baby is near her, she will whine and cry and say she is scared during a movie (which I can understand, however these movies are not scary) I guess maybe to some anything can be, but they were watching imagination movers for not even 5 min while I put changed a diaper before putting the movie in for quiet time and she starts crying, I asked what is wrong and she said she didn't know, I said well I can't help you if you don't tell me, she said I just want to take a nap, ok so I took her to take her nap in another room. She rarely sits out here for for quiet time and watches a movie unless she picks it out, a few minutes later I went to check on her and she said I'll tell you why now, I said ok, she said it's because I wanted my movie in, but she cries over everything, I do know she gets scared easily every disney movie she claims to be scared of HOWEVER she will watch Scooby Doo?????
So I know when she cries sometimes she's "scared" of something but other times she's crying I have no idea she flat out wont tell me. Oh today one of my babies has a little black eye, she wouldn't come by the baby because she was scared of the baby, I explained to her there was nothing to be scared of, it's not contagious she just has a little owie, but she said well it scares me. My tv is on until about 8is in the morning, she comes right at the tail end of it and she used to beg me to keep it on, well now she's "scared" to watch it (same show she always has watched) and she immediatley will say, I don't want it on, I want it off, which she knows I do right about that time and put songs in, she then started crying saying the kids song the ants go marching one by one was scary??? She just whines and cries over everything what would you do or how would you help her or what??? Help it's really driving me crazy and the other kids are noticing it and I don't know what to say, they say so and so is crying again. I just need some ideas I've never had a child like this before.
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