I have a child 2.3 years old he has been with one year now.
Ever since he goes through mood swings never seen this but he is violent to his mom at home and when she picks him up.
He tried to bite and hit me and I said straight no not allow he has never tried it back.
At drop off he screams every morning.
His mom treats him like a baby, carrying him around and doing everything for him which is all fine but I have asked her before can you teach him to like feed himself and she said he won't do it instead throw his food, so when it comes to food to use spoon or fork he will not eat, I have tried encouraging him he will not eat. He pick one piece of pasta at a time with two fingers. He does not like sensory things.
He stand and stare at the kids having fun inside or outside. I have tried to get involve him alot like block play, reading, crafts and more of group and individual activities nothing works.
He can speak but refuses to do it here. I have heard him speak to his mom clear.
Mom knows i am trying my best but today she texted me asking how is M?
I texted her to say I give up meaning he is here and if he don't want to be involve i will let him be.
Mom said she cannot afford to seek help for him.
Any advice how to get this child involve or do anything with us.
Is this ADHD or autistic?
So i have said to him when we come inside to take your shoes off he will stand or stare me for half hour before i go ahead and do it. Everything i do gave myself extra time for him to do. i have one child three months older than him and another child five months younger than him.And they both play and can do for themselves.
Now i know every child is different.
What can I do?
Ever since he goes through mood swings never seen this but he is violent to his mom at home and when she picks him up.
He tried to bite and hit me and I said straight no not allow he has never tried it back.
At drop off he screams every morning.
His mom treats him like a baby, carrying him around and doing everything for him which is all fine but I have asked her before can you teach him to like feed himself and she said he won't do it instead throw his food, so when it comes to food to use spoon or fork he will not eat, I have tried encouraging him he will not eat. He pick one piece of pasta at a time with two fingers. He does not like sensory things.
He stand and stare at the kids having fun inside or outside. I have tried to get involve him alot like block play, reading, crafts and more of group and individual activities nothing works.
He can speak but refuses to do it here. I have heard him speak to his mom clear.
Mom knows i am trying my best but today she texted me asking how is M?
I texted her to say I give up meaning he is here and if he don't want to be involve i will let him be.
Mom said she cannot afford to seek help for him.
Any advice how to get this child involve or do anything with us.
Is this ADHD or autistic?
So i have said to him when we come inside to take your shoes off he will stand or stare me for half hour before i go ahead and do it. Everything i do gave myself extra time for him to do. i have one child three months older than him and another child five months younger than him.And they both play and can do for themselves.
Now i know every child is different.
What can I do?
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