Tell me if this is mean. I have a 3 yr old dcb that has been very defiant lately and hitting and pushing the other kids non-stop. I have taken toys away from him, time out, lay on nap mat ect. Nothing works. Talked to parents about it, they seem angry at first, but then allow him to control so many things when he's with them. For instance, mom HAS to lay with him every night for him to go to sleep, he HAS to bring a stuffed animal everyday he comes here. Last week when dad picked up he wanted to put his sweatshirt on. Dad put it on him, the dcb took it off and said that HE wanted to put it on, so he was almost done putting it on and dad tried to help so dcb got mad and took it totally off again and said that he wanted to do it. He did this 3 times. Dad allowed it. So obviously they just let him do whatever. Today I have run out of ideas on how to give him an incentive to not hit. He body slammed another dcb earlier so I told him that was it, if I see it again, he is not getting his blanket that he brings from home for nap. Well, right before nap he walked up and smacked a second dcb in the face. So, no blanket. Do you think that’s mean? I am running out of things to do with him.
Before anyone says to term him, I cannot do that right now. My husband is unemployed and this is our only income.
Before anyone says to term him, I cannot do that right now. My husband is unemployed and this is our only income.
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