I don't know if you guys can help me but I'm sure hoping someone can. My son is 2.5 and was born with hearing issues and fluid in his ears and had tubes put in which eventually solved his hearing but his speech is still coming along. He also has social issues and possibly some other things we are still waiting for diagnosis's for. Anyhow that's pretty much his background.
He's been a part of the infants and toddlers program here for 16 or 17 months. I thought he had this wonderful provider. He grew very attached to her. He learned a lot from her and we also grew to have somewhat of a friendship. I told her about my 9 year old daughters behavior problems and she was very nice and made suggestions.
The speech therapist took a new job back in the classroom at the end of August and her summer was very weird as far as appointments went so A*** didn't get a lot of time with her but she promised she'd keep in touch with us even after she was no longer A's teacher. A** has an iep meeting July 23 and we discussed turning his case over to a new worker once per month until Dec when he turns 3 so then he goes into preschool. I said fine. Our fave teacher had seen him once or twice per week but I didn't want someone else taking her place for such a short time.
That day this teacher told me I could totally trust her and confide in her about really personal things and I did. She was very sweet and understanding and she promised not to tell anyone. She saw my oldest daughter put bruises on me and didn't say anything. My daughter came into her store and misbehaved terribly. She made threats to me and called names and the teacher heard all of this. The teacher works a second job at a dog store.
I apologized but I guess the damage was done. The teacher said she could get fired or lose her teaching license and I felt terrible. I didn't want that at all. I apologized to her boss at the store and got my daughter the help she needs.
Well July 31 was supposed to have been A's last appt with said teacher. I had called the previous Fri to see if we could change it and she never ever called back nor did she show up for the session. When I called infants and toddlers they refused to tell me anything. All they tried to tell me was that B*** received a message that I was canceling our apt which wasn't true.
Then they lied and said she no longer worked there anymore and that July 31 was her last day. Not true. I asked her to call me back. She wouldn't. Instead another worker called back. I asked where B**** was and what had happened and she said B***'s gone she won't see A*** and did I want to schedule with her and she was very rude and abrupt.
I told her I'd call her back. I called above her head to the head at the program who seemed nice and said sure A*** could get closure because he missed B**** and was asking for her and cryin for her. She was nice until she talked to B****. Then she changed her tune, stopped talking to me and responding to my emails. I asked for A***'s records and they hurriedly had the other worker who'd never even seen him sign off as his new worker and send some of them and not all.
I have tried calling B*****, texting her and emailing her. She has forwarded my emails to other staff members, very private emails that I asked her never to share, shes shared. She has violated confidentiality and she won't face me or talk to me. When I've gone back into her store she's hidden and dodged me.
I am for real. When I called once with a kitten question she refused to answer the phone and had someone else call back and pretend they'd accidentally hung up. I sent her a video of my son crying for her. He misses her terribly she didn't show up for his final appt she never called she refuses to give him closure or talk to me. I want answers as to what's happened and closure for my son.
This is ridiculous that a teacher can behave like this and get away with it. She's acted completely inappropriately and unprofessional. Infants ad toddlers and wants to sweep this under the rug and get A*** back in the program ASAP because they know B*****'s screwed up. I just want her to apologize. I thought she was my friend. I trusted her and she betryed me and I am angry and hurt.
He's been a part of the infants and toddlers program here for 16 or 17 months. I thought he had this wonderful provider. He grew very attached to her. He learned a lot from her and we also grew to have somewhat of a friendship. I told her about my 9 year old daughters behavior problems and she was very nice and made suggestions.
The speech therapist took a new job back in the classroom at the end of August and her summer was very weird as far as appointments went so A*** didn't get a lot of time with her but she promised she'd keep in touch with us even after she was no longer A's teacher. A** has an iep meeting July 23 and we discussed turning his case over to a new worker once per month until Dec when he turns 3 so then he goes into preschool. I said fine. Our fave teacher had seen him once or twice per week but I didn't want someone else taking her place for such a short time.
That day this teacher told me I could totally trust her and confide in her about really personal things and I did. She was very sweet and understanding and she promised not to tell anyone. She saw my oldest daughter put bruises on me and didn't say anything. My daughter came into her store and misbehaved terribly. She made threats to me and called names and the teacher heard all of this. The teacher works a second job at a dog store.
I apologized but I guess the damage was done. The teacher said she could get fired or lose her teaching license and I felt terrible. I didn't want that at all. I apologized to her boss at the store and got my daughter the help she needs.
Well July 31 was supposed to have been A's last appt with said teacher. I had called the previous Fri to see if we could change it and she never ever called back nor did she show up for the session. When I called infants and toddlers they refused to tell me anything. All they tried to tell me was that B*** received a message that I was canceling our apt which wasn't true.
Then they lied and said she no longer worked there anymore and that July 31 was her last day. Not true. I asked her to call me back. She wouldn't. Instead another worker called back. I asked where B**** was and what had happened and she said B***'s gone she won't see A*** and did I want to schedule with her and she was very rude and abrupt.
I told her I'd call her back. I called above her head to the head at the program who seemed nice and said sure A*** could get closure because he missed B**** and was asking for her and cryin for her. She was nice until she talked to B****. Then she changed her tune, stopped talking to me and responding to my emails. I asked for A***'s records and they hurriedly had the other worker who'd never even seen him sign off as his new worker and send some of them and not all.
I have tried calling B*****, texting her and emailing her. She has forwarded my emails to other staff members, very private emails that I asked her never to share, shes shared. She has violated confidentiality and she won't face me or talk to me. When I've gone back into her store she's hidden and dodged me.
I am for real. When I called once with a kitten question she refused to answer the phone and had someone else call back and pretend they'd accidentally hung up. I sent her a video of my son crying for her. He misses her terribly she didn't show up for his final appt she never called she refuses to give him closure or talk to me. I want answers as to what's happened and closure for my son.
This is ridiculous that a teacher can behave like this and get away with it. She's acted completely inappropriately and unprofessional. Infants ad toddlers and wants to sweep this under the rug and get A*** back in the program ASAP because they know B*****'s screwed up. I just want her to apologize. I thought she was my friend. I trusted her and she betryed me and I am angry and hurt.
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