My son came home from preschool yesterday and told my wife that another boy is putting his hand in my son's pants and touching him during nap time. I asked my son, doesn't the teacher see this, but he says it happens when the teacher turns her head.
So I told my son how proud I was for him telling us about this.
This is a catholic school , so first thing this morning I went to see the principal. I also mentioned this to my son's teacher.
The principal told me she would handle this. She called me a few hours later to tell me she spoke with both boys and the other's boys parents. My son told her exactly what he had told us. She asked the other boy if anyone does this to him and he said no.
I have a friend who is an attorney that suggests I file a report with child protective services. He suspects sexual abuse occurring with the other boy. The principal told me she understand if I do this, but doesn't think it is necessary due to the age ( 4 ) of the boy.
I'm having trouble believing this is normal behavior for a 4 yr old but I'm not sure. I don't want to cause more stress for my son if he has to be interviewed again.
I have been assured by the principal that they will keep the boys apart.
Any help would be appreciated . I am leaning towards letting it go and just telling my son to tell me if it happens again.
thanks for any advice.
So I told my son how proud I was for him telling us about this.
This is a catholic school , so first thing this morning I went to see the principal. I also mentioned this to my son's teacher.
The principal told me she would handle this. She called me a few hours later to tell me she spoke with both boys and the other's boys parents. My son told her exactly what he had told us. She asked the other boy if anyone does this to him and he said no.
I have a friend who is an attorney that suggests I file a report with child protective services. He suspects sexual abuse occurring with the other boy. The principal told me she understand if I do this, but doesn't think it is necessary due to the age ( 4 ) of the boy.
I'm having trouble believing this is normal behavior for a 4 yr old but I'm not sure. I don't want to cause more stress for my son if he has to be interviewed again.
I have been assured by the principal that they will keep the boys apart.
Any help would be appreciated . I am leaning towards letting it go and just telling my son to tell me if it happens again.
thanks for any advice.
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