I have a 3 yr old dcb who is difficult however I can handle most of his behaviors most of the time. Lately he is so lazy about doing anything that doesnt get him an instant reward. Today he took off his socks and threw them around the room. When it was time to go outside I suggested he find his sock so we could get shoes on and go. He glanced around for less than 2 seconds and then demanded I find it. Needless to say we went out on the deck and he was left inside (within regs- I could see and hear him at all times) to look for the sock. He never even attempted to look. Hands in pockets- looking at ceiling. It was pretty warm already this am so the kids didnt end up staying out very long and he never did make it outside. I checked on the progress and suggested he "look with eyes, try moving some toys, maybe under the couch" etc. He is like this with projects/games etc too. If it doesnt dance and scream back at hime (like tv) within 2 seconds he flat out refuses to engage. He rarely picks up, but tells everyone else to do it for him. Additionally his sister can not wait for food/drink crayons etc. She is a little younger but I am working on teaching both delayed gratification- work hard reap the rewards, wait paitently for others, not EVERYTHING you see is yours to take/touch/eat.
Any good methods to teach this skill? I know this is probably a "now a days epidemic" but what can I do in my house to teach this?
Any good methods to teach this skill? I know this is probably a "now a days epidemic" but what can I do in my house to teach this?
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