Hello,
I have a LO in daycare now and would love your advice/thoughts on how to deal with a situation. When he started at the daycare he was still eating baby food so I provided all of his food. Although the DCP provides milk for all the kids, I still send my own because I want him to have organic milk w/ DHA. Nutrition is very important to me - I'm a vegetarian and feed my son extremely well although he's allowed to have turkey and chicken. Well, he's finally starting to push the pureed foods away and wants to eat what the others are eating. Last week I went to pick him up and she told me that she offered him a huge cinammon role at breakfast and she was so surprised that he ate the whole thing! (she said this with a lot of excitement because its been difficult getting him to eat solids). She said she didn't put the icing on because she didn't really think he'd eat it (meaning that normally she smothers them with icing!). She went on to say that he ate mac n/ cheese and a dinner role at lunch. I held my tongue because I don't want to be obnoxious and I've been avoiding this discussion with her. In NO WAY do I think a young toddler should be eating iced anything for breakfast. Nor do I think he should be eating nothing but starch and fake cheese for lunch!!!!
Please give me some guidance on how to approach her on this. I don't want to insult her at all (she's a wonderful caregiver otherwise) as this is what she is also feeding her own kids. But, I also understand that its very difficult to have a parent bring their child their own lunch that the other kids can't have. And, I'm sure it will be difficult to get him to eat something nutritious when the other kids are eating yummy junk. What should I do?
I have a LO in daycare now and would love your advice/thoughts on how to deal with a situation. When he started at the daycare he was still eating baby food so I provided all of his food. Although the DCP provides milk for all the kids, I still send my own because I want him to have organic milk w/ DHA. Nutrition is very important to me - I'm a vegetarian and feed my son extremely well although he's allowed to have turkey and chicken. Well, he's finally starting to push the pureed foods away and wants to eat what the others are eating. Last week I went to pick him up and she told me that she offered him a huge cinammon role at breakfast and she was so surprised that he ate the whole thing! (she said this with a lot of excitement because its been difficult getting him to eat solids). She said she didn't put the icing on because she didn't really think he'd eat it (meaning that normally she smothers them with icing!). She went on to say that he ate mac n/ cheese and a dinner role at lunch. I held my tongue because I don't want to be obnoxious and I've been avoiding this discussion with her. In NO WAY do I think a young toddler should be eating iced anything for breakfast. Nor do I think he should be eating nothing but starch and fake cheese for lunch!!!!
Please give me some guidance on how to approach her on this. I don't want to insult her at all (she's a wonderful caregiver otherwise) as this is what she is also feeding her own kids. But, I also understand that its very difficult to have a parent bring their child their own lunch that the other kids can't have. And, I'm sure it will be difficult to get him to eat something nutritious when the other kids are eating yummy junk. What should I do?
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