I have a 3 1/2 yr old dcg, who is really getting on my last nerve. Yesterday, when she arrived, my 4 yr old said, yeah, Mary Canary is here. (Now, we have been working on ryhyming , and he also ryhmes is sisters names which ryhmes with banana) Anyway, dcg got mad and told her mom what he said. I just said that we have been working on rhyming words and that he thinks its fun. I also added to my son, that Mary doesn't like her name ryhmed so please don't do that. He said okay. Now, mind you, for months after this girl started she called my son Brian and his name is Ryan. On purpose. When she would ask me where he is, she would say it correctly. However, when speaking to him directly she would say it wrong.
Okay, at pickup yesterday. Other dcks were gone. IT was just my 2 and this girl. I was with the kids, playing snowballs( I stuffed stuffing into plasctic sandwich bags and tape up.) Everything was fine. I left the room for 2 minutes to check on supper. I can see/hear everything the kids are doing. Mom shows up and asks girl how her day was. Girl said that my ds kept calling her baby. I was like, what, when? I told mom that I was with them playing snowballs, I did leave the room for 2 mins but I did not hear anything. I asked my son and he said no he didn't. Calling other kids names is not something he does. The mom just stares at me. Mind you, this is the same girl I had posted before about having her mom wrapped around her finger. How she brings food/drinks, blankets, toys and other extra stuff that is not needed. I told dcg that if someone calls you a name and you don't like it, you need to tell me right away so Ican take care of it.
I tell all the kids, mine included, if something happens tell me right away. IF not, and there is 2 different sides of the story, I will just tell them to behave. (Unless, a child is known to do things to the other kids, but the one in my care who does that,is this 3 yr old girl) She grabs things out of all the kids hands, wants her way all the time, and at that exact moment. Because that is what she does to her mom and she lets her get away with it.
Okay, at pickup yesterday. Other dcks were gone. IT was just my 2 and this girl. I was with the kids, playing snowballs( I stuffed stuffing into plasctic sandwich bags and tape up.) Everything was fine. I left the room for 2 minutes to check on supper. I can see/hear everything the kids are doing. Mom shows up and asks girl how her day was. Girl said that my ds kept calling her baby. I was like, what, when? I told mom that I was with them playing snowballs, I did leave the room for 2 mins but I did not hear anything. I asked my son and he said no he didn't. Calling other kids names is not something he does. The mom just stares at me. Mind you, this is the same girl I had posted before about having her mom wrapped around her finger. How she brings food/drinks, blankets, toys and other extra stuff that is not needed. I told dcg that if someone calls you a name and you don't like it, you need to tell me right away so Ican take care of it.
I tell all the kids, mine included, if something happens tell me right away. IF not, and there is 2 different sides of the story, I will just tell them to behave. (Unless, a child is known to do things to the other kids, but the one in my care who does that,is this 3 yr old girl) She grabs things out of all the kids hands, wants her way all the time, and at that exact moment. Because that is what she does to her mom and she lets her get away with it.
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