Can I make it through 10 more weeks of disrespect? This SA child is driving me crazy.
They won't follow even the simplest direction. Everyone else comes in, deposits their shoes, jackets, and bags in the designated spot, ut your backpack where it goes" to keep everyone else from tripping over it - and they carry it into the next room and deposit it in the middle of the floor in there (passing the place where the backpacks go on the way). I say "that isn't where it goes", so they pick it up and sit on it.
I say "don't take your snack bowl into the playroom", so they take a handful of food out of the bowl and carry it into the playroom, munching away.
They say something inappropriate (we're having a hard time with potty talk here right now), so I say "don't say that - you know it isn't allowed and it's inappropriate". They look right at me and repeat what they said, using a DIFFERENT but similar potty word.
I put them in time out on Monday, and I said "you will remain sitting in that chair until I tell you to get up", and 30 seconds later they're across the room sitting on another piece of furniture. "But I'm still sitting...."
It's like they're doing EVERYTHING they can to defy me without blatantly doing what I said not to do. They tweak the bad behavior just a tad because they think I'll give them a pass. I won't, of course, but I feel like ALL I do ALL the time is keep on top of this child and reprimand them, for a solid three hours, every single day. It is driving. me. absolutely. nuts.
This is mostly a vent, but if anyone has any ideas here, I'd appreciate it. The child is certainly old enough to know better (2nd grade).
They won't follow even the simplest direction. Everyone else comes in, deposits their shoes, jackets, and bags in the designated spot, ut your backpack where it goes" to keep everyone else from tripping over it - and they carry it into the next room and deposit it in the middle of the floor in there (passing the place where the backpacks go on the way). I say "that isn't where it goes", so they pick it up and sit on it.
I say "don't take your snack bowl into the playroom", so they take a handful of food out of the bowl and carry it into the playroom, munching away.
They say something inappropriate (we're having a hard time with potty talk here right now), so I say "don't say that - you know it isn't allowed and it's inappropriate". They look right at me and repeat what they said, using a DIFFERENT but similar potty word.
I put them in time out on Monday, and I said "you will remain sitting in that chair until I tell you to get up", and 30 seconds later they're across the room sitting on another piece of furniture. "But I'm still sitting...."
It's like they're doing EVERYTHING they can to defy me without blatantly doing what I said not to do. They tweak the bad behavior just a tad because they think I'll give them a pass. I won't, of course, but I feel like ALL I do ALL the time is keep on top of this child and reprimand them, for a solid three hours, every single day. It is driving. me. absolutely. nuts.
This is mostly a vent, but if anyone has any ideas here, I'd appreciate it. The child is certainly old enough to know better (2nd grade).
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