Looking for advice on whether or not to term a biter.
This started last November with a DCB who is now 21 months old. I advised DCM in December (after the third incident) that if it happened again, DCB would be termed... there was no more biting after that because the previous bitee, a 9 month old, isn’t enrolled anymore because of conflicting schedules.
Last week, the biter bit another DCB (age 2) on the arm and caused it to bruise. This past Wednesday, the biter bit the same DCB on the knee cap, this time leaving teeth marks. The bitee did nothing to the biter, the biter simply walked up and bit the boy right in front of me.
I informed DCM Wednesday at pick-up that if there is another incident, DCB will be termed immediately. DCM has told me so many different stories about how DCB only bites at home, or doesn’t bite anyone but his brother, or he only bites her. It’s very frustrating.
DCM comes in today (they don’t attend Thursday) and asked if I could set up a camera because her 21 month old told her “****** hit me” so DCM thinks her son is being provoked. I explained whether he is provoked or not, he’s still biting and it’s getting more aggressive with each bite. I told DCM that he needs more attention than I can give him, being an in-home center with a 1:6 ratio. I explained he needs worked with on it. She asked me if I could work with her and I told her no, I’ve given her since November to correct this behavior.
Now I’m second guessing that decision because I know it could pit her in a tough spot. Thoughts?
This started last November with a DCB who is now 21 months old. I advised DCM in December (after the third incident) that if it happened again, DCB would be termed... there was no more biting after that because the previous bitee, a 9 month old, isn’t enrolled anymore because of conflicting schedules.
Last week, the biter bit another DCB (age 2) on the arm and caused it to bruise. This past Wednesday, the biter bit the same DCB on the knee cap, this time leaving teeth marks. The bitee did nothing to the biter, the biter simply walked up and bit the boy right in front of me.
I informed DCM Wednesday at pick-up that if there is another incident, DCB will be termed immediately. DCM has told me so many different stories about how DCB only bites at home, or doesn’t bite anyone but his brother, or he only bites her. It’s very frustrating.
DCM comes in today (they don’t attend Thursday) and asked if I could set up a camera because her 21 month old told her “****** hit me” so DCM thinks her son is being provoked. I explained whether he is provoked or not, he’s still biting and it’s getting more aggressive with each bite. I told DCM that he needs more attention than I can give him, being an in-home center with a 1:6 ratio. I explained he needs worked with on it. She asked me if I could work with her and I told her no, I’ve given her since November to correct this behavior.
Now I’m second guessing that decision because I know it could pit her in a tough spot. Thoughts?
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