I have a dcg that will be 3 beginning of Oct. She has been with me since June and is a smart little girl. My issue and I will do the best I can to describe, she doesn't seem to know how to regulate her feelings on anything. Every second of the day it can be happy fun and nice to being the complete opposite. It's always about either she doesn't want to do what you ask her to do or if one of the kids doesn't do what she wants them to do. Some examples, she will walk right into and between where other kids are playing, then proceed to just take something that someone else has, if they say can I please have it back she will start yelling no I want it, if I intervene I talk and walk her through how she should ask ect. she will usually sit down throw herself back and start crying saying I don't want to or kick something or even throw that toy. Another example, is if she is playing with someone and they don't play how she wants she will start to either pull their shirt, never hard I think she knows she's not suppose to but enough where the other child will say something to me but she will start crying or lay down and start crying and then if for whatever reason the other child decides to comply with her rules, she doesn't want it that way and start all over again, it's like she does not know how to play. I will put her down for nap and she'll say I'm a princess and I'll repeat it she will say no I'm not a princess.
I know that at her previous daycare she wasn't around kids her age and the provider let her watch tv all day, her parents do not seem like they let her do what she wants they are very calm when dealing with her but I don't want to term her either as I don't think it would be doing her any favors. I demonstrate constantly how we play with others ect.
Any ideas on maybe what could be going on? or what I can do? I am really hoping once we start preschool activities things will get better as there will be more structure to our day any advise would be greatly appreciated.
I know that at her previous daycare she wasn't around kids her age and the provider let her watch tv all day, her parents do not seem like they let her do what she wants they are very calm when dealing with her but I don't want to term her either as I don't think it would be doing her any favors. I demonstrate constantly how we play with others ect.
Any ideas on maybe what could be going on? or what I can do? I am really hoping once we start preschool activities things will get better as there will be more structure to our day any advise would be greatly appreciated.
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