When natural consequences may not be appropriate what do you do? I have a 4-year-old who can't keep his hands to himself. He pinches other kids covertly, like under the table, behind his own back, uses his body or objects/furniture to block the view of what he's doing. He has some delays but now that he is over 3 no longer gets early intervention. The school district insists he only needs speech. This is a child that I don't want to term. I'm working with someone trying to get him extra help...... normally, whatever activity we're doing when he pinches someone he misses the rest of. This is mostly effective. Well, today he did it while I was handing out cupcakes for our Halloween party. I'm generally opposed to withholding anything food related as a consequence....but dammit...
What would you guys have done?
I ended up making him wait until everyone was done with their treat and it was all cleaned up, to get his at the table alone. I told him that when he's pinching people he's not fit for company so he has to hang out by himself. I have to be so careful when it comes to food though, giving him something different or not giving the treat to him at all would have been a regulation violation.
What would you guys have done?
I ended up making him wait until everyone was done with their treat and it was all cleaned up, to get his at the table alone. I told him that when he's pinching people he's not fit for company so he has to hang out by himself. I have to be so careful when it comes to food though, giving him something different or not giving the treat to him at all would have been a regulation violation.
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