I got a message from DCM asking if she could skip a week or two of paying so she could catch up on money. She said she is hoping child support would kick in soon or she can find a better job to repay anything she owes......which, to me, sounds like it is going to end up being longer than the 2 weeks she mentioned.
I really like this mom and her son. They have been respectful of my policies and rules and to my home and family.
I really wish I could make this work- goodness knows I have fallen on hard times myself but I simply can't afford to not fill his spot for who knows how long. She didn't make me feel guilty or that it was my responsibility to do a favor for her and she understood if I couldn't do it.
Am I wrong for telling her that I just can't right now? As my husband said to me "this is a business, not volunteer work" and I agree. He didn't mean it in an insensitive way-We have 4 kids to feed and clothe and this is my income but I just wish there was something I could to do help I guess. While I am getting better at keeping my emotions out of things like this, I guess there is always room for improvement.
I really like this mom and her son. They have been respectful of my policies and rules and to my home and family.
I really wish I could make this work- goodness knows I have fallen on hard times myself but I simply can't afford to not fill his spot for who knows how long. She didn't make me feel guilty or that it was my responsibility to do a favor for her and she understood if I couldn't do it.
Am I wrong for telling her that I just can't right now? As my husband said to me "this is a business, not volunteer work" and I agree. He didn't mean it in an insensitive way-We have 4 kids to feed and clothe and this is my income but I just wish there was something I could to do help I guess. While I am getting better at keeping my emotions out of things like this, I guess there is always room for improvement.
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