This is kinda a funny post and kinda an advice post.
I had a dcm text me tuesday night saying their family was going to take an impromptu vacation so dcg would be absent W/Th/F. I responded, "Have a good time, we will miss L while she's away "
But then today I got a text from DCM that says, "We're home! Do you want me bring L over tomorrow since you weren't able to see her all week? I could come around 10."
I've never, ever, ever been open on weekends, and I have children and a husband of my own. Our weekends are absolutely packed with family activities so no(!!!) I don't want you to randomly bring your child here because I haven't seen her in 3 days.
She always makes comments like this, like I'm desperate to see her child. She sends me a picture of her daughter every.single.day. with a caption like "here's your daily L fix!" Even on days that dcg was here with me all day!
Here's the advice part: How do I gently ask that she stop sending me pictures and updates about her daughter every single second of the day? I love all my dckids but I certainly don't want to see their pictures or get updates when they aren't in my care. This mom texts me almost every evening saying, "Guess what L said/did/etc." and I never respond but still she sends the messages every single day. I'm so over it!
I had a dcm text me tuesday night saying their family was going to take an impromptu vacation so dcg would be absent W/Th/F. I responded, "Have a good time, we will miss L while she's away "
But then today I got a text from DCM that says, "We're home! Do you want me bring L over tomorrow since you weren't able to see her all week? I could come around 10."
I've never, ever, ever been open on weekends, and I have children and a husband of my own. Our weekends are absolutely packed with family activities so no(!!!) I don't want you to randomly bring your child here because I haven't seen her in 3 days.
She always makes comments like this, like I'm desperate to see her child. She sends me a picture of her daughter every.single.day. with a caption like "here's your daily L fix!" Even on days that dcg was here with me all day!
Here's the advice part: How do I gently ask that she stop sending me pictures and updates about her daughter every single second of the day? I love all my dckids but I certainly don't want to see their pictures or get updates when they aren't in my care. This mom texts me almost every evening saying, "Guess what L said/did/etc." and I never respond but still she sends the messages every single day. I'm so over it!
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