I am a mom currently involved in a divorce/custody fight with the other parent. My Child has been going to this home based day care for a couple of years already, and I don't want to pull him out from this daycare.
A couple of Attorneys, told me that it not a good idea to involve the day care provider(especially a home based one) in the custody fights. I was also told that usually they will refuse to do so in most case.
The reasoning was this day care provider would have worked hard to build a client base and reputation and so for that reason they would be nice to get along with every one and refuse to get involved. The last thing they want to see is one of these parents spoil that reputation in a few ways for example, either by contacting licensing for alleged or really small licensing violations or spreading false reviews or something like that.
For this reason, i was also told that, if they suspect this, they will go to the extreme of even removing the child from day care. that way they don't have any further liability in the ongoing situation.
My real dilemma here is that the day care provider will be very good witness and support for my documentation to gain custody of my child, if the day care provider gets involved and gives me some paperwork to support my claims.
Is it true that the day care providers, really think the same way as my attorneys told me? Should I even ask the day care provider about this situation?
A couple of Attorneys, told me that it not a good idea to involve the day care provider(especially a home based one) in the custody fights. I was also told that usually they will refuse to do so in most case.
The reasoning was this day care provider would have worked hard to build a client base and reputation and so for that reason they would be nice to get along with every one and refuse to get involved. The last thing they want to see is one of these parents spoil that reputation in a few ways for example, either by contacting licensing for alleged or really small licensing violations or spreading false reviews or something like that.
For this reason, i was also told that, if they suspect this, they will go to the extreme of even removing the child from day care. that way they don't have any further liability in the ongoing situation.
My real dilemma here is that the day care provider will be very good witness and support for my documentation to gain custody of my child, if the day care provider gets involved and gives me some paperwork to support my claims.
Is it true that the day care providers, really think the same way as my attorneys told me? Should I even ask the day care provider about this situation?
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