Here I am again, please ease my conscience or tell me how to do this better:
New DCG -18m will have been here for two weeks next Weds. She is awesome, except she will not nap. Right now, I have her napping in a PnP in my boys room. The other children have white noise and are not bothered by her screaming.
I feel terribly guilty. At first, I was checking in on her, trying to lay her back down, patting her back. This did nothing so I have quit. She is going down at 12, absolutely screaming her head off for our 2-hour nap. No breaks. And I mean screaming. Twice she has fallen asleep when it was time to get up which made it impossible to rouse her. Once she fell asleep for 30 minutes and woke up again to continue screaming. She now anticipates when nap is coming because she starts screaming as soon as we sit and read a book, which is what we do every day before nap. I am trying to keep things as predictable as possible.
Parents say they are sleep training at home also. I am wracking my brain trying to figure out how to get this kid to sleep. I hate listening to her scream, and it makes me feel guilty (and worry what parents might say although I did tell them once she is in there, I am not going back in).
I know it is the beginning and it might get better, so this may be more of a vent than anything! I hate the adjustment period! She was in care before and parents say she slept there.
Should I try two naps? She would be the only one napping in the morning besides my almost 4mo old who naps a lot. I would really prefer one nap but if it's going to make it easier on her, I would try it. Parents say she is mostly taking one at home, sometimes two.
New DCG -18m will have been here for two weeks next Weds. She is awesome, except she will not nap. Right now, I have her napping in a PnP in my boys room. The other children have white noise and are not bothered by her screaming.
I feel terribly guilty. At first, I was checking in on her, trying to lay her back down, patting her back. This did nothing so I have quit. She is going down at 12, absolutely screaming her head off for our 2-hour nap. No breaks. And I mean screaming. Twice she has fallen asleep when it was time to get up which made it impossible to rouse her. Once she fell asleep for 30 minutes and woke up again to continue screaming. She now anticipates when nap is coming because she starts screaming as soon as we sit and read a book, which is what we do every day before nap. I am trying to keep things as predictable as possible.
Parents say they are sleep training at home also. I am wracking my brain trying to figure out how to get this kid to sleep. I hate listening to her scream, and it makes me feel guilty (and worry what parents might say although I did tell them once she is in there, I am not going back in).
I know it is the beginning and it might get better, so this may be more of a vent than anything! I hate the adjustment period! She was in care before and parents say she slept there.
Should I try two naps? She would be the only one napping in the morning besides my almost 4mo old who naps a lot. I would really prefer one nap but if it's going to make it easier on her, I would try it. Parents say she is mostly taking one at home, sometimes two.
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