What age (average) do your kids learn to write their names. For me it's usually 3-3.5 but this year just seems different. This is also a group which doesn't really draw even though we do a lot of fine motor and drawing activities. Just seems like kids are not as interested in pencil/crayon/pen activities. I want to blame it on iPads and not playing outside to develop the large motor skills first. I looked back at old pictures from a few years ago and the difference in detail and creativity is huge!
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There is a very big difference! My kids seem to get bored so fast when they are offered paper and crayons/markers/pencils.
I use dry erase markers and plastic page protectors with the child's name written in a faint grey so that they can begin to trace their name. We start at about 2.5, and some kids catch in quick. When I did 3's preschool, I had some kids who could write every child's name in the class just from practicing so much.
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Originally posted by Miss A View PostThere is a very big difference! My kids seem to get bored so fast when they are offered paper and crayons/markers/pencils.
I use dry erase markers and plastic page protectors with the child's name written in a faint grey so that they can begin to trace their name. We start at about 2.5, and some kids catch in quick. When I did 3's preschool, I had some kids who could write every child's name in the class just from practicing so much.
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My own child knew how to write her name just before turning 4 but I only pushed it because of school. She was an amazing drawer though and has an awesome imagination! My other child just turned 3 and we just started letter and number recognition. For me playing is much more important.
I think kids are too supervised and controlled. No one lets their kids have markers and paper to do whatever they want with and everyone is so afraid of mess. I have had 18 monthers and two year olds come to me having never held a marker That is just wrong! I just let the kids do whatever they want. Even if I am thinking "holy lawd what a mess" I keep it to myself. They really need that time for fine motor skills and creativity.
When I worked in a centre we didn't start this kind of stuff until the kids were 4-4.5 but I am Canadian and I think our system is not the same. I hear that the USA is much more focused on academics and there is a lot more testing.
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The US is much more focused on Academics, but I believe it is because as soon as a parent can get their child into preschool they no longer need to 'parent' during the day, or pay for daycare. So much of childhood is no longer about allowing a child to be a child, but to learn as much as you can as soon as you can. I understand the need for education, but I also want kids to have fun, and to explore. Childhood is for role playing, experimenting with your environment, and learning about the world that the child finds themselves immersed in.
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Originally posted by Ariana View PostMy own child knew how to write her name just before turning 4 but I only pushed it because of school. She was an amazing drawer though and has an awesome imagination! My other child just turned 3 and we just started letter and number recognition. For me playing is much more important.
I think kids are too supervised and controlled. No one lets their kids have markers and paper to do whatever they want with and everyone is so afraid of mess. I have had 18 monthers and two year olds come to me having never held a marker That is just wrong! I just let the kids do whatever they want. Even if I am thinking "holy lawd what a mess" I keep it to myself. They really need that time for fine motor skills and creativity.
When I worked in a centre we didn't start this kind of stuff until the kids were 4-4.5 but I am Canadian and I think our system is not the same. I hear that the USA is much more focused on academics and there is a lot more testing.
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Originally posted by MissAnn View PostMy kids are learning through play and what interests them. I don't push. What I am noticing is a lack of desire to even draw. Drawing is easier on an iPad or computer.
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Yeh, a whole group that has a lack of interest in drawing or other creative forms would be a concern. I would step back from writing and drawing and go to activities that are really open ended and good for fine motor skills (playdough, clay, eye droppers, painting, geoboards, etc).
Age in which my group learns varies greatly. I have a lot of parents that try and push it before they're 3. I have a lot of parents that don't push it at all. Almost all of my kiddos just pick it up without me having to 'instruct' much about it. I don't see any need for children to learn to write their names until they're closer to kinder. But for those that don't get it by the time they're 4 years old, I do get a little more intensive with them.
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Originally posted by kendallina View PostYeh, a whole group that has a lack of interest in drawing or other creative forms would be a concern. I would step back from writing and drawing and go to activities that are really open ended and good for fine motor skills (playdough, clay, eye droppers, painting, geoboards, etc).
Age in which my group learns varies greatly. I have a lot of parents that try and push it before they're 3. I have a lot of parents that don't push it at all. Almost all of my kiddos just pick it up without me having to 'instruct' much about it. I don't see any need for children to learn to write their names until they're closer to kinder. But for those that don't get it by the time they're 4 years old, I do get a little more intensive with them.
I'm just wondering if any of you have noticed the change in kids. All of mine have iPads and get on them as soon as they get home. They are not going outside to play as often....opting to zombie out on iPads or TV. We already know the effects of screen time are damaging for kids but with my current group I see the effects more dramatically in any other year.
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Originally posted by Miss A View PostOh, I was never insinuating that were a pusher, I was just stating what I believe childhood is. I think you and I would agree on many things, Miss Ann
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Originally posted by MissAnn View PostNo problem. I didn't feel attacked. I just think it's very sad that our children do not have the kind of childhood we had. Well, I'm speaking for myself. I am 56 years old.....ancient.
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Here is a PDF document that you can print that helps with milestones up to 5 years: https://www.daycare.com/news/milestones/milestones.pdf
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My ds did not use electronics (he is 8 now) until he was 6. He didn't learn to write his name until he was in kindergarten.
I don't think it's a big deal. Kids have so much time to learn that stuff. I don't focus on writing. Alphabet, numbers, sounds, colors, art, Spanish, music. Very little writing.
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Originally posted by MissAnn View PostOK....let me rephrase. I am a learn through play program. My kids choose their activities every day. I do not push....we learn through play and what interests them. I use handwriting without tears but I make games out of it. I have several going to kindergarten next year and they love the hands on materials. I'm not asking what I should do about it...I already know how kids learn and the importance of hands on, playful experiences and plenty of materials to support that.
I'm just wondering if any of you have noticed the change in kids. All of mine have iPads and get on them as soon as they get home. They are not going outside to play as often....opting to zombie out on iPads or TV. We already know the effects of screen time are damaging for kids but with my current group I see the effects more dramatically in any other year.
And while I haven't noticed that kids don't like art/writing as much as kids used to, but I have noticed that a lot of kids don't like to be outside as much as they used to. I've also noticed that some kids have a hard time directing themselves in their own playing. I've had a few children that would literally just sit around or walk around during free play, not even knowing how to make a choice. Both of my recent kids that did that, though, wasn't as much because of electronics, but more so because the parents were very helicopter-y and always played with their kids and told them what and how to do things.
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