I am so mad at myself. I just can't do it. I want to but between the guilty feeling and my husband and haven't yet.
I know it is getting old coming here and complaining and getting advise and not using it.
So last Friday I had a meeting with year olds mother. Talking about how her child should have some kind of defense against the 3 year old. The three year old has not done anything that is hurting the other child but he did about 3 months back. But, now, the 5 year old thinks he can push and head butt whenever the 3 year old comes towards him. I think it is out of being timid now but I can't have that happening here. I did stand my ground and say that I will not allow any pushing whatsoever for whatever reason. I also told her I would not be changing anything that I do.
This is after she accused me of loving her son less over the 3 year old. Yes, I have had the 3 year old since he was 8 weeks old but I don't treat them any different. They both get the same attention. I have invited these people to outings, to baseball games in a box that included unlimited food and beverages. I get him christmas birthday and holiday gifts and then they come back and tell me this. I am so mad tonight.
Tonight she sat outside my driveway for 15 minutes and waited until 530 to come in and left at 535. I close at 530..is she waiting for me to say something. I don't care what they do after they get out of work, but darn it get here to get your kids on time. She got out at 4 showed up in jogging outfit. I am very irritated. Sorry for the rambling.
I know it is getting old coming here and complaining and getting advise and not using it.
So last Friday I had a meeting with year olds mother. Talking about how her child should have some kind of defense against the 3 year old. The three year old has not done anything that is hurting the other child but he did about 3 months back. But, now, the 5 year old thinks he can push and head butt whenever the 3 year old comes towards him. I think it is out of being timid now but I can't have that happening here. I did stand my ground and say that I will not allow any pushing whatsoever for whatever reason. I also told her I would not be changing anything that I do.
This is after she accused me of loving her son less over the 3 year old. Yes, I have had the 3 year old since he was 8 weeks old but I don't treat them any different. They both get the same attention. I have invited these people to outings, to baseball games in a box that included unlimited food and beverages. I get him christmas birthday and holiday gifts and then they come back and tell me this. I am so mad tonight.
Tonight she sat outside my driveway for 15 minutes and waited until 530 to come in and left at 535. I close at 530..is she waiting for me to say something. I don't care what they do after they get out of work, but darn it get here to get your kids on time. She got out at 4 showed up in jogging outfit. I am very irritated. Sorry for the rambling.
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