So I have recently reopened and so far have one child enrolled. His first week was this past week and he was only here one day. He is almost 2.5 yo and not very verbal.
I posted about him after interviewing the family. He did not listen to mom and dad. I talked with parents afterwards and felt assured that they were on the same page as far as behavourial expectations were concerned. I was told he was a biter, that centre wasn't concerned until parents were, and that it stopped after they mentioned it.
So first day was ok. I expect other kids to sign soon and stuck to what my 'normal' schedule will be like with him. In other words, our routine is how it will be once there are other kids here.
Morning was fine. He explored. He seemed comfortable with environment and with me. There were a few little things as far as listening was concerned but I am hopeful that with consistency and repetition he will understand what the rules and expectations are here. Not sure what the centre was like as far as what the rules were but I understand that there will obviously be some differences.
After nap, any time I told him that he could not do something he would throw himself on the floor. That happened 3 times. He wanted to go upstairs and I told him that we would soon and he threw a basket at me. Sat him at the table with an activity and then we 'tried again'. He again was told no (can't remember about what) and he got angry and threw the toy he was holding across the room. Repeated the rule and told him that he could not play with the cars if that was how he was going to treat them. Sat out of play for a few mins.
Then he was fine. The day proceeded without any more outbursts when I had to remind/tell him what the rules were.
When dad showed up, he didn't listen and was all over the place.
He slept well but didn't eat much. Mom and dad assured me that is on par with how he normally is.
His verbal skills are quite low. I really have to listen and put in context what he is saying. I don't know how much this may be contributing to his acting out in frustration.
Any advice?
I posted about him after interviewing the family. He did not listen to mom and dad. I talked with parents afterwards and felt assured that they were on the same page as far as behavourial expectations were concerned. I was told he was a biter, that centre wasn't concerned until parents were, and that it stopped after they mentioned it.
So first day was ok. I expect other kids to sign soon and stuck to what my 'normal' schedule will be like with him. In other words, our routine is how it will be once there are other kids here.
Morning was fine. He explored. He seemed comfortable with environment and with me. There were a few little things as far as listening was concerned but I am hopeful that with consistency and repetition he will understand what the rules and expectations are here. Not sure what the centre was like as far as what the rules were but I understand that there will obviously be some differences.
After nap, any time I told him that he could not do something he would throw himself on the floor. That happened 3 times. He wanted to go upstairs and I told him that we would soon and he threw a basket at me. Sat him at the table with an activity and then we 'tried again'. He again was told no (can't remember about what) and he got angry and threw the toy he was holding across the room. Repeated the rule and told him that he could not play with the cars if that was how he was going to treat them. Sat out of play for a few mins.
Then he was fine. The day proceeded without any more outbursts when I had to remind/tell him what the rules were.
When dad showed up, he didn't listen and was all over the place.
He slept well but didn't eat much. Mom and dad assured me that is on par with how he normally is.
His verbal skills are quite low. I really have to listen and put in context what he is saying. I don't know how much this may be contributing to his acting out in frustration.
Any advice?
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