why do you make a child stay in the nap area for the whole time? I see many/most of us have scheduled afternoon nap times (1-3 or 2-4, etc). From what I'm understanding, that is nap time and everyone stays in the nap area the entire time. What is the reasoning behind that? I'm absolutely not judging, just needing to hear some reasons. I do this. Even if the child is screaming through the remainder (or ALL) of naptime. However, it really makes no sense, if you figure that all kids need to rest, and if you have a screamer in there, keeping them up, they are not resting. I'm kind of looking for "because it's in my regs that children will rest for 2 hours" or "I know they are tired, so they must stay in there the whole time" or whatever.
Here's my issue. I was just thinking today that if dcm asked me how long I let dcb cry at naptime, and I tell her the whole time, or an hour or 30 minutes or whatever it was, what do I tell her if she asks WHY I don't just get him up? He's obviously waking the other kids by being in there. My answer now is that he's still tired and if he doesn't nap he will just cry/whine/scream the rest of the day out here. But if I look at it from her perspective, it would make more sense to just get him up and keep him quiet away from the other nappers if he's just going to cry and keep them up.
So, for anyone who has scheduled nap times, what is your reasoning for keeping the children in there the whole scheduled time, even if they wake up earlier?
Here's my issue. I was just thinking today that if dcm asked me how long I let dcb cry at naptime, and I tell her the whole time, or an hour or 30 minutes or whatever it was, what do I tell her if she asks WHY I don't just get him up? He's obviously waking the other kids by being in there. My answer now is that he's still tired and if he doesn't nap he will just cry/whine/scream the rest of the day out here. But if I look at it from her perspective, it would make more sense to just get him up and keep him quiet away from the other nappers if he's just going to cry and keep them up.
So, for anyone who has scheduled nap times, what is your reasoning for keeping the children in there the whole scheduled time, even if they wake up earlier?
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