For those who may remember some of my previous posts, two of my dck's have been gone for 6 weeks to be with their out-of-state father. He was supposed to pay for them to fly back with him, and he informed DCM last week that he could not afford it. She ended up reluctantly paying for all of them to fly back. DCD also does not pay child support.
Anyway, they started back today; they flew in yesterday morning. I was warned by DCM that they have been acting out, fighting, calling names, and no longer using manners. I expect about a week to re-adjust, so I knew today would be a little difficult anyway! Well, I notice both kids look a little skinny. Breakfast time, both of them eat like their breakfast will be taken away from them! I chalk it up to growth spurts for both of them. Early lunch comes around and 3 yo dcg is shoving food in her mouth again! Asks for seconds, eats all of it. She is usually my SLOWEST eater. So much so, that I have to set the timer at 40 minutes b/c she'll sit there forever!!! She has been quiet all day long, keeping to herself. NOT like her at all, not even on her very first day with me! She is outgoing, energetic, carefree, bubbly, etc... She eats TWO snacks at 2:30, and is asking for dinner by 3:30pm. I gave her some bread and told her that her mom was picking her up soon to feed her dinner. The MOMENT she sees mom she says "Mommy! You're here! Now you can take me home and feed me dinner!!" That's when mom tells me she's been eating everything put in front of her since she's been back; and she lost 5 pounds since going to be with her dad. Almost 15% of her body weight! I know some of you may say maybe she didn't eat with her dad b/c she wanted to come home, or didn't adjust well. That's NOT like her though! She could go with a complete stranger and be happy about it normally! I just don't know what to think of this. As an obligated reporter, should I be calling CPS, even though he's out of state & won't have them again for many months?
Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!
Anyway, they started back today; they flew in yesterday morning. I was warned by DCM that they have been acting out, fighting, calling names, and no longer using manners. I expect about a week to re-adjust, so I knew today would be a little difficult anyway! Well, I notice both kids look a little skinny. Breakfast time, both of them eat like their breakfast will be taken away from them! I chalk it up to growth spurts for both of them. Early lunch comes around and 3 yo dcg is shoving food in her mouth again! Asks for seconds, eats all of it. She is usually my SLOWEST eater. So much so, that I have to set the timer at 40 minutes b/c she'll sit there forever!!! She has been quiet all day long, keeping to herself. NOT like her at all, not even on her very first day with me! She is outgoing, energetic, carefree, bubbly, etc... She eats TWO snacks at 2:30, and is asking for dinner by 3:30pm. I gave her some bread and told her that her mom was picking her up soon to feed her dinner. The MOMENT she sees mom she says "Mommy! You're here! Now you can take me home and feed me dinner!!" That's when mom tells me she's been eating everything put in front of her since she's been back; and she lost 5 pounds since going to be with her dad. Almost 15% of her body weight! I know some of you may say maybe she didn't eat with her dad b/c she wanted to come home, or didn't adjust well. That's NOT like her though! She could go with a complete stranger and be happy about it normally! I just don't know what to think of this. As an obligated reporter, should I be calling CPS, even though he's out of state & won't have them again for many months?
Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!
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