So I am wondering what you guys would do in this situation.... I have a 4 yr old dcg who comes at 11:30 - 12:00. Of course this is right when nap/quiet time. I thought that it would not interfere with nap time because she is older goes to school and should be used to a schedule/structure.
Anyway when the child comes in she is told everyday it is nap time you can sit quietly and watch the movie or play quietly in the toy room. At this time I am either cleaning up, rocking a baby or doing my paperwork. You know having a moment to myself when the day is finally quiet.
Dcg comes in and as to be inches away from me at all time. I rock a baby she stands next to me staring at me. I have gates that block off the kitchen, she stands by the gates watching me as I clean up from lunch. I have said please go and play or watch the movie it is quiet time. I have tried being more stern with her, not saying please.
I could deal with it mostly until last Friday. I go into the bathroom and she is crying because I close the door and she cant stand inches away from me. I was doing laundry which is in the kitchen and she is crying because I have the gates up. I dont feel the daycare kids need to be in the kitchen where there is nothing for them to play with, also a safety for them with oven going and stove.
She starts crying and I ask her what is wrong she says nothing, I dont know.
Well dcm drops off dcg yesterday and says to me "dcg is scared when you go to the bathroom, go into the kitchen, or let the dogs outside. Can you please allow her to be with you at all times and remove your gates??"
This is a family who has their sac dropped off at my home without notice also.
Do I keep this family? I feel their are many issues, but if I cant go pee without have this one child by while doing, I feel it is a bit much
Anyway when the child comes in she is told everyday it is nap time you can sit quietly and watch the movie or play quietly in the toy room. At this time I am either cleaning up, rocking a baby or doing my paperwork. You know having a moment to myself when the day is finally quiet.
Dcg comes in and as to be inches away from me at all time. I rock a baby she stands next to me staring at me. I have gates that block off the kitchen, she stands by the gates watching me as I clean up from lunch. I have said please go and play or watch the movie it is quiet time. I have tried being more stern with her, not saying please.
I could deal with it mostly until last Friday. I go into the bathroom and she is crying because I close the door and she cant stand inches away from me. I was doing laundry which is in the kitchen and she is crying because I have the gates up. I dont feel the daycare kids need to be in the kitchen where there is nothing for them to play with, also a safety for them with oven going and stove.
She starts crying and I ask her what is wrong she says nothing, I dont know.
Well dcm drops off dcg yesterday and says to me "dcg is scared when you go to the bathroom, go into the kitchen, or let the dogs outside. Can you please allow her to be with you at all times and remove your gates??"
This is a family who has their sac dropped off at my home without notice also.
Do I keep this family? I feel their are many issues, but if I cant go pee without have this one child by while doing, I feel it is a bit much
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