If a parent gives you schedule, a month in advance, and marks days where DCK will not be coming would you make plans to do things if you have no other kids that day? What would you say if the parent then changed last minute and said they wanted to use the day?
The main reason I ask is I'm taking 4 days off soon, Tues-Friday. The Monday of that week I was planning to work but because of other vacations I only had one DCK scheduled. I was just looking at the schedule for the DCK that is scheduled to be here and DCM marked that she would not be coming on that Monday so now DH wants to leave on Saturday (we're travelling out of town and we'd come back Friday rather than Sunday which works better for us) but I'm paranoid this DCM will text me on Sunday saying she needs to bring DCG, which she has done in the past (she works for the school system and I checked their online schedule and school offices are closed that day). She already threw a fit about me taking Thurs (DCG is Mon/Thurs, I'm not charging her for Thurs) so I just want to be prepared instead of caught off guard.
Would it be inappropriate to leave town before Monday? What would you say if you did leave and she text last minute?
The main reason I ask is I'm taking 4 days off soon, Tues-Friday. The Monday of that week I was planning to work but because of other vacations I only had one DCK scheduled. I was just looking at the schedule for the DCK that is scheduled to be here and DCM marked that she would not be coming on that Monday so now DH wants to leave on Saturday (we're travelling out of town and we'd come back Friday rather than Sunday which works better for us) but I'm paranoid this DCM will text me on Sunday saying she needs to bring DCG, which she has done in the past (she works for the school system and I checked their online schedule and school offices are closed that day). She already threw a fit about me taking Thurs (DCG is Mon/Thurs, I'm not charging her for Thurs) so I just want to be prepared instead of caught off guard.
Would it be inappropriate to leave town before Monday? What would you say if you did leave and she text last minute?
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