I have a dcf with two kids here, 6 mo and 2. Mom texted me at 11pm saying that she would be picking the baby up at 10am tomorrow for a dr appt then bringing her back to me. Her concern is that the 2 year old will have a hard time if he sees her leaving a total of 3 times that day (ummm yea!)
My issues are
1) this should have been discussed ahead of time not texted the night before, I do not like this plan
2) I am not comfortable with the infant coming back after shots.
3) dcb is going to have a very hard time with all this, seeing mom come and go more than once
I texted back that she should have discussed this with me first.
I do not have a policy about coming after shots but I will now. I've never had anyone do this before but I do not like it. Should I allow her to return since it is not a policy at the moment?
How should I go about adding this policy? A handout signed by the parents and added to the file?
I'm annoyed that this wasn't mentioned at all until tonight
My own kids always get a fever afterward and of course the crankiness
My issues are
1) this should have been discussed ahead of time not texted the night before, I do not like this plan
2) I am not comfortable with the infant coming back after shots.
3) dcb is going to have a very hard time with all this, seeing mom come and go more than once
I texted back that she should have discussed this with me first.
I do not have a policy about coming after shots but I will now. I've never had anyone do this before but I do not like it. Should I allow her to return since it is not a policy at the moment?
How should I go about adding this policy? A handout signed by the parents and added to the file?
I'm annoyed that this wasn't mentioned at all until tonight
My own kids always get a fever afterward and of course the crankiness
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