I got this from a dcd this morning:
My immediate response:
Would you say anything to the family with the brat? The older sibling was a brat also (and other parents mentioned it) but he has outgrown us now. I am looking at 2 more years with the little brat. I don't call kids brats lightly, but she really IS a brat!
So I noticed tonight at pick-up that S got down in A's face and yelled at him (he was doing nothing). So on the way home I gently asked the older two what they thought about how S plays with other kids. Well I got an ear full, nose pinching, yelling, ear pulling on the babies, hitting and so on. It surprised me when the answers came out so easy and consistenly from them both. I can normally tell when they are pulling my leg because they are not nearly as quick on their feet.
Anyway I just wanted to share what I saw and heard. I would have said something at pickup but its always a little hectic. Normally I would not have a concern about this as I trust your care and guidance of the kids, but A is still so little and defenseless in this situation so I wanted to be sure to call it to your attention.
Anyway I just wanted to share what I saw and heard. I would have said something at pickup but its always a little hectic. Normally I would not have a concern about this as I trust your care and guidance of the kids, but A is still so little and defenseless in this situation so I wanted to be sure to call it to your attention.
My immediate response:
Thanks so much for bringing this up. I always appreciate problems being dealt with head on. I did not see her do that to A. I have been having some problems with yelling, screaming, and general bad behavior with S. She gets a lot of time-outs and when her behavior is really uncalled for she gets removed from the group and put in a time-out in her bed. I will keep a close eye. Thanks so much
Would you say anything to the family with the brat? The older sibling was a brat also (and other parents mentioned it) but he has outgrown us now. I am looking at 2 more years with the little brat. I don't call kids brats lightly, but she really IS a brat!
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