Hi, I am logging in as unregistered to maintain a little privacy for a delicate situation.
I have dcg7 who touches inappropriately. As far as I know, it has just been butt grabbing, but I'm very concerned about the behavior. It's not like she 's a curious 3-yr old; she's 7. Talks with dcm show concern but not enough initiative. "I don't know where it's coming from, it's from riding the bus, blah blah blah..." I could really use advice on how to address this. I told dcm that if dcg does it again she won't be able to come for a while. Does anybody have a policy on addressing something like this?
I was thinking of saying something like if she did it again then she's not here for a week. She's touching butts so if she touches a front then she's terminated. (After all, she's 7 and is old enough to know better.) I just don't want it to get that far. I also have dcb2 and dcg4 in my care as well as 2 of my own children (and 1 on the way). My oldest child is on the autism spectrum and has difficulty communicating so my ears and eyes are always open when dcg is here. My mil helps out if I have somewhere to be and now I'm refusing to allow dcg to come when I am not here. What should I do?
I have dcg7 who touches inappropriately. As far as I know, it has just been butt grabbing, but I'm very concerned about the behavior. It's not like she 's a curious 3-yr old; she's 7. Talks with dcm show concern but not enough initiative. "I don't know where it's coming from, it's from riding the bus, blah blah blah..." I could really use advice on how to address this. I told dcm that if dcg does it again she won't be able to come for a while. Does anybody have a policy on addressing something like this?
I was thinking of saying something like if she did it again then she's not here for a week. She's touching butts so if she touches a front then she's terminated. (After all, she's 7 and is old enough to know better.) I just don't want it to get that far. I also have dcb2 and dcg4 in my care as well as 2 of my own children (and 1 on the way). My oldest child is on the autism spectrum and has difficulty communicating so my ears and eyes are always open when dcg is here. My mil helps out if I have somewhere to be and now I'm refusing to allow dcg to come when I am not here. What should I do?
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