I have had the 3mo baby for one month now Dcm wanted to come and stay for a few hours and "hang-out" and "help me" the week before Christmas but I told her no.
So the first week she started coming and staying for a half hour at drop-off. I was thinking she was doing it to make up for me not letting her come and stay, maybe she wanted to get to know us or whatever. Well, here we are a month later and she still does it. She comes in, takes her coat off, and plays with her baby, sings him songs, annoys me, and finally leaves after half an hour. Sometimes the baby is hungry when he gets here so she tries to feed him but he is too distracted.
No other dcparent does this, in fact they seem rushed for time in the morning. This dcm is still getting to work on time, she comes a half hour earlier than she needs too. I charge her by the day, not hours so that is of no consequence.
Also - this dcm works at a daycare (they don't take infants.) But she seems clueless! She brings so much stuff for the baby it looks like he is moving in. I sent most of it home the first day but she continues to bring too much - like 3 blankets each day. I asked her to bring one and leave it.
I am having trouble with my backbone. How would you handle this?
So the first week she started coming and staying for a half hour at drop-off. I was thinking she was doing it to make up for me not letting her come and stay, maybe she wanted to get to know us or whatever. Well, here we are a month later and she still does it. She comes in, takes her coat off, and plays with her baby, sings him songs, annoys me, and finally leaves after half an hour. Sometimes the baby is hungry when he gets here so she tries to feed him but he is too distracted.
No other dcparent does this, in fact they seem rushed for time in the morning. This dcm is still getting to work on time, she comes a half hour earlier than she needs too. I charge her by the day, not hours so that is of no consequence.
Also - this dcm works at a daycare (they don't take infants.) But she seems clueless! She brings so much stuff for the baby it looks like he is moving in. I sent most of it home the first day but she continues to bring too much - like 3 blankets each day. I asked her to bring one and leave it.
I am having trouble with my backbone. How would you handle this?
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