Have You Ever Thought To Yourself "I Have A Future Serial Killer In My Care!"?

[youretooloud]

My cousin's daughter was like this. As a toddler/preschooler... she had tantrums that would last hours and hours. The whole family was held at her mercy every day.

She would be sneaky and lean over with her sharpened pencil and stab the kid next to her, then lie about it. Even if there were witnesses, she'd stick to her lie.

She set her garage on fire with the cousin still inside. Lied about doing it, but the building next door had a security camera and caught it all on tape.

Her brother's pets disappeared one at a time. Everyone was convinced she had something to do with it.

When she was older, she took a bus to the police station and told them that her Step Father had molested her. They took her to a hospital, arrested the step dad, and mom divorced him...then, she did the same thing accusing a teacher at her private school...there was an investigation, and she admitted she made it up and also lied about her step dad.

She told everybody she was a lesbian, got into a relationship with a woman in Vietnam. When the woman sent her money to come to Vietnam "to escape the abuse at home", she went to Vietnam, then admitted that she was indeed not a lesbian, and used the tickets and money the woman gave her to live off of for a year. Then came back to the U.S.

Right now, she's living somewhere in Central or South America, doing heaven knows what.

All that, and she's only 21 yrs old now.

[Oneluckymom]

My cousin's daughter was like this. As a toddler/preschooler... she had tantrums that would last hours and hours. The whole family was held at her mercy every day.

She would be sneaky and lean over with her sharpened pencil and stab the kid next to her, then lie about it. Even if there were witnesses, she'd stick to her lie.

She set her garage on fire with the cousin still inside. Lied about doing it, but the building next door had a security camera and caught it all on tape.

Her brother's pets disappeared one at a time. Everyone was convinced she had something to do with it.

When she was older, she took a bus to the police station and told them that her Step Father had molested her. They took her to a hospital, arrested the step dad, and mom divorced him...then, she did the same thing accusing a teacher at her private school...there was an investigation, and she admitted she made it up and also lied about her step dad.

She told everybody she was a lesbian, got into a relationship with a woman in Vietnam. When the woman sent her money to come to Vietnam "to escape the abuse at home", she went to Vietnam, then admitted that she was indeed not a lesbian, and used the tickets and money the woman gave her to live off of for a year. Then came back to the U.S.

Right now, she's living somewhere in Central or South America, doing heaven knows what.

All that, and she's only 21 yrs old now.

WOW.....Unbelievable. My step dad has SPD....probably among other things. My mom divorced him after 24 years of marriage. Long story. But I know the habitual lying, deceit, and HEAVY manipulation these people are capable of.

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

Yes, I did and I termed them and then got blamed for his violent, wretched behavior by one parent while the other parent said they knew they had a problem on their hands and just didn't know what to do about it anymore.

[countrymom]

my bil is like this. He's a habitual liar, its so bad that even my kids know what kind of person he is. He's been in jail too, and has done all sorts of wierd things. I don't let the kids near him as he is a bit too touchy feely with them. Even when he was younger he was naughty. He was also a theif

[Bookworm]

I had a DCB about 4 yrs ago exactly like this. He was 4 at the time and extremely manipulative. Mom and gmom believed everything he said. Before coming to us, he was kicked out of his previous home daycare for stomping on frogs to kill them, stabbing the babies (he was very sneaky), and attempting to smother a baby.

Then he came to us. During his first week, he would constantly ask me if he was a bad boy. He said that his old teachers used to call him bad all the time. This broke my heart so I called mom to ask about his previous daycare and she said the same thing and that was why he was pulled.

Fast forward 2 wks, his true self came out. While we were washing hands for lunch, he turned around and poked another DCB in the eye with soap on his hands while I was standing there passing out soap. He would also poke the other kids with nails he brought from home, steal ther stuff, spit in their food, and just walk up to a random kid and bite him. When asked why he did it, he said it was fun. The owner at the time was a "I have to fix every problem child no matter what" person so this went on for 7 months. The final straw was when my director came to observe my room on my request and he, out of the blue, ran to another child and began to choke him with both hand. He was kicked out immediately and was gone in 30 mins.

[Starburst]

My old boss once said that one DCG was so shallow and attention hungry (because she was always fishing for complements) that she bet DCG would be a stuck-up cheerleader in high school and would wind up pregnant before she graduated .

But there are a lot of kids who we could kinda picture what they would be like as an adult or teenager. There are a few DCBs we all know for sure would have lots of girl admirers when they are older (they're adorable and really sweet). But there was one DCB who had a lot of cognitive issues; not really violent but very delayed in comprehension skills, sometimes to the point where it effected the safety of others. But his mom just wouldn't get him tested for a learning disability. I don't necessarily think that he will be a serial killer, but I do think that he possibly will get in trouble with the law a few times because he is too trusting and borderline gullible; so I can see people pretending to be his friend and taking advantage of his kindness by framing him or convincing him he did something wrong when it was someone else.

[DaisyMamma]

Yep, I've thought this before. LOL

It sounds like mom is enabling him. If i I were dcm I don't care what I did, mistake or not, no child of mine throws rocks at me! He would be huge trouble

[MrsSteinel'sHouse]

I had a four year old tell my when he grows up he is going to ride a motorcycle and cut people up not little pieces!! I was not upset when they pulled him... I was too expensive!