I don't think I can handle much more of this mom that has the 4 year old boy that I watch. I honestly think she is oblivious to her lack of manners.
To recap...this is the mom that allowed her 4 year old son in her running car (drivers seat) like it was no big deal while she was inside my doorway...the one that walks in without knocking, dropped her son off twice without knowing where I was (she showed up early one time, late the other and I was busy in another room not visible to her), and shows up past my closing time a lot (and didn't seem to expect a late fee last week as she showed up with only the normal fee on payday).
This mom seems to have the blandest personality and I don't know if she realizes it, but to me it comes across as rude. First I don't agree with the no knocking thing she does...second, her communication is horrible, she never lets me know if she's going to be late at pick up...and the one that tops the cake for me is most every pick up she NEVER says goodbye or thank you or we will see you tomorrow.
Today we were in the back yard playing when she picked up...she talked to her son and the next thing I know she already walked away without saying a word to me and she left. Didn't even ask how his day was..NOTHING. Like she doesn't care. The boy struggles with listening and following rules and I made her aware when he first started coming to me but it seems to go over her head...last Thursday the boy ran my 4 year old daughter over with my double stroller in the driveway and she cut her knee and ankle open, I told his mom about it and she asked if he said he was sorry but never once did she appologize for her son's actions. I was deterbed because I told the boy a zillion times over NOT to push my stroller (because I had my other daycare boy in it!!, at the time I was destracted with another parent picking up).
I just can't take her rudeness...especially when she leaves without saying anything to me...makes me feel like all I do for/with him is dog dirt to her. I don't really "need" the income I get from this mom. It's nice to have that extra, but I'm thinking it's not worth my stress I feel with this mom. I'm going to finish out this week and get my pay and most likely call it quits with her. I feel bad for doing it on a short notice, but I don't think I would feel comfortable telling her I'm terminating and continuing another 2 weeks.
To recap...this is the mom that allowed her 4 year old son in her running car (drivers seat) like it was no big deal while she was inside my doorway...the one that walks in without knocking, dropped her son off twice without knowing where I was (she showed up early one time, late the other and I was busy in another room not visible to her), and shows up past my closing time a lot (and didn't seem to expect a late fee last week as she showed up with only the normal fee on payday).
This mom seems to have the blandest personality and I don't know if she realizes it, but to me it comes across as rude. First I don't agree with the no knocking thing she does...second, her communication is horrible, she never lets me know if she's going to be late at pick up...and the one that tops the cake for me is most every pick up she NEVER says goodbye or thank you or we will see you tomorrow.
Today we were in the back yard playing when she picked up...she talked to her son and the next thing I know she already walked away without saying a word to me and she left. Didn't even ask how his day was..NOTHING. Like she doesn't care. The boy struggles with listening and following rules and I made her aware when he first started coming to me but it seems to go over her head...last Thursday the boy ran my 4 year old daughter over with my double stroller in the driveway and she cut her knee and ankle open, I told his mom about it and she asked if he said he was sorry but never once did she appologize for her son's actions. I was deterbed because I told the boy a zillion times over NOT to push my stroller (because I had my other daycare boy in it!!, at the time I was destracted with another parent picking up).
I just can't take her rudeness...especially when she leaves without saying anything to me...makes me feel like all I do for/with him is dog dirt to her. I don't really "need" the income I get from this mom. It's nice to have that extra, but I'm thinking it's not worth my stress I feel with this mom. I'm going to finish out this week and get my pay and most likely call it quits with her. I feel bad for doing it on a short notice, but I don't think I would feel comfortable telling her I'm terminating and continuing another 2 weeks.
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