Hi all. I could use some advice. I've never had to term before, so I guess I'm wondering how much you all put up with in terms of a child's behavior.
I have a 4 year old dcb that has only been with me one week. During the interview dcp expressed how much energy this kid had. It wasn't an issue for me. I've had quite a few little boys with a LOT of energy. However, this dcb's energy level is not my issue. He is completely defiant. He refused to take a time out on Friday, he's argumentative, and I've seen him push a child a couple times. My daughter can't stand him, and I can't say I blame her. On Friday he was horrible and I texted the parents to let them know and said if he didn't shape up someone would need to come pick him up. dcd got off work early and came by to get them (dcb has a sister that is a joy to watch) about 3 hours early. He seemed concerned about his son's behavior, but from the parent-child interactions I've seen, this kid is hugely under-disciplined.
Dcp are really nice, and I feel bad terming after only a week, but I'm wondering if it's really the right thing to do at this point. I have other kids to worry about.
Advice?
Thank you!
I have a 4 year old dcb that has only been with me one week. During the interview dcp expressed how much energy this kid had. It wasn't an issue for me. I've had quite a few little boys with a LOT of energy. However, this dcb's energy level is not my issue. He is completely defiant. He refused to take a time out on Friday, he's argumentative, and I've seen him push a child a couple times. My daughter can't stand him, and I can't say I blame her. On Friday he was horrible and I texted the parents to let them know and said if he didn't shape up someone would need to come pick him up. dcd got off work early and came by to get them (dcb has a sister that is a joy to watch) about 3 hours early. He seemed concerned about his son's behavior, but from the parent-child interactions I've seen, this kid is hugely under-disciplined.
Dcp are really nice, and I feel bad terming after only a week, but I'm wondering if it's really the right thing to do at this point. I have other kids to worry about.
Advice?
Thank you!
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